"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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guys after a long time,im on a stump

gherald

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i dont but i guess my confidence is losing...

well,this is my problem,i had a haircut and it really turned out bad. (cursed you damn haircutter) i usually have a nice hair that fits my facial structure but this time the haircutter cut it short because something stupid came up...

anyway, everyone at our campus started mocking me...but i still try to be confident and joke about it...but lately, i dont seem to get the attention i used to get before...so i thought i must be my hair...

so im planning to buy a wig but im half worried (and the other is excitement) that that wont fix the problem and maybe my friends will mock me more...

any suggestion guys?any advice would help...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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awww...man i rally like to keep my looks private...but basically,it was really short and no remedy can be done...
 

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woow, don't do that man! Your confidence must NOT be in your hair... DON'T be insecure about it, just reframe it and come back to thee game. The attraction will come instantly when u put your game together, your looks will only help, but not be decisive.
 

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i know i would laugh more if you had a wig on....

just wait for it to grow out and say **** it to people who laugh cuz u have short hair!?!?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why would u laugh?

i really feel so weak because of that fvcking old man...

T_T and i need a confidence booster..
 

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i guess u guys say the same thing...

but can u suggest any confidence booster?

cause right now i feel like im mr nobody...
 

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Well, I think u can go to the field and approach a buch of women, or u can start therapy. Is always good to deal with your issues before.
 
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