"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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guys after a long time,im on a stump

gherald

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i dont but i guess my confidence is losing...

well,this is my problem,i had a haircut and it really turned out bad. (cursed you damn haircutter) i usually have a nice hair that fits my facial structure but this time the haircutter cut it short because something stupid came up...

anyway, everyone at our campus started mocking me...but i still try to be confident and joke about it...but lately, i dont seem to get the attention i used to get before...so i thought i must be my hair...

so im planning to buy a wig but im half worried (and the other is excitement) that that wont fix the problem and maybe my friends will mock me more...

any suggestion guys?any advice would help...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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awww...man i rally like to keep my looks private...but basically,it was really short and no remedy can be done...
 

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woow, don't do that man! Your confidence must NOT be in your hair... DON'T be insecure about it, just reframe it and come back to thee game. The attraction will come instantly when u put your game together, your looks will only help, but not be decisive.
 

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i know i would laugh more if you had a wig on....

just wait for it to grow out and say **** it to people who laugh cuz u have short hair!?!?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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why would u laugh?

i really feel so weak because of that fvcking old man...

T_T and i need a confidence booster..
 

gherald

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i guess u guys say the same thing...

but can u suggest any confidence booster?

cause right now i feel like im mr nobody...
 

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Well, I think u can go to the field and approach a buch of women, or u can start therapy. Is always good to deal with your issues before.
 
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