"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Remulak

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Guys within that age range how often do you see your gfs? It seems like a lot of guys on this website say once a week? Which I think is complete bullshyt...most girls my age would break up with you if you only saw them once a week.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wiesman44

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depends on the person man. Every woman is different. You can't pin down an exact number. I would say two times a week is perfect.
 

pooparu

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Remulak said:
Guys within that age range how often do you see your gfs? It seems like a lot of guys on this website say once a week? Which I think is complete bullshyt...most girls my age would break up with you if you only saw them once a week.
Go for what YOU want, don't think you have to follow these exact rules. If you wanna see her 4 times in one week and 1 in the next, then do so, its your life. Stop planning and go do ****. Look, if it ends up not working out, then you have more experience under your belt, playing it safe whatever isn't going to get you the experience you would get if you just went after what you wanted. Part of being a DJ and a man is doing what you want with conviction, and not letting anyone else dictate what you do.

Besides, you'll be predictable if you come maybe once or twice a week EVERY week, she'll just expect that and get bored. Switch it up, have fun, that's what its about.
 

TheSplat

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My girlfriend and I go to the same college, so we see each other every day, she spends the night with me most nights. It would be weird to see each other twice a week when we live like 1/2 mile apart.
 
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