"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Guys 20-24 with LTRs...

Remulak

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Guys within that age range how often do you see your gfs? It seems like a lot of guys on this website say once a week? Which I think is complete bullshyt...most girls my age would break up with you if you only saw them once a week.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wiesman44

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depends on the person man. Every woman is different. You can't pin down an exact number. I would say two times a week is perfect.
 

pooparu

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Remulak said:
Guys within that age range how often do you see your gfs? It seems like a lot of guys on this website say once a week? Which I think is complete bullshyt...most girls my age would break up with you if you only saw them once a week.
Go for what YOU want, don't think you have to follow these exact rules. If you wanna see her 4 times in one week and 1 in the next, then do so, its your life. Stop planning and go do ****. Look, if it ends up not working out, then you have more experience under your belt, playing it safe whatever isn't going to get you the experience you would get if you just went after what you wanted. Part of being a DJ and a man is doing what you want with conviction, and not letting anyone else dictate what you do.

Besides, you'll be predictable if you come maybe once or twice a week EVERY week, she'll just expect that and get bored. Switch it up, have fun, that's what its about.
 

TheSplat

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My girlfriend and I go to the same college, so we see each other every day, she spends the night with me most nights. It would be weird to see each other twice a week when we live like 1/2 mile apart.
 
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