"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Remulak

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Guys within that age range how often do you see your gfs? It seems like a lot of guys on this website say once a week? Which I think is complete bullshyt...most girls my age would break up with you if you only saw them once a week.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wiesman44

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depends on the person man. Every woman is different. You can't pin down an exact number. I would say two times a week is perfect.
 
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Remulak said:
Guys within that age range how often do you see your gfs? It seems like a lot of guys on this website say once a week? Which I think is complete bullshyt...most girls my age would break up with you if you only saw them once a week.
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Go for what YOU want, don't think you have to follow these exact rules. If you wanna see her 4 times in one week and 1 in the next, then do so, its your life. Stop planning and go do ****. Look, if it ends up not working out, then you have more experience under your belt, playing it safe whatever isn't going to get you the experience you would get if you just went after what you wanted. Part of being a DJ and a man is doing what you want with conviction, and not letting anyone else dictate what you do.

Besides, you'll be predictable if you come maybe once or twice a week EVERY week, she'll just expect that and get bored. Switch it up, have fun, that's what its about.
 
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My girlfriend and I go to the same college, so we see each other every day, she spends the night with me most nights. It would be weird to see each other twice a week when we live like 1/2 mile apart.
 
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