GilHarris
Don Juan
The site is listed SoSuave's "Links of Interest". Does anyone have any experience with it? Is it worth it?
Thanks.
Thanks.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
]Originally posted by Newbie05
Hi there, i'm new to this but hope this basic study guideline will be of any help to you.
Here is a study guideline im following for the next 2 months.
1) Study and Practice David Shade's
- Eye contact experiments (www.fastseduction.com/youarenew)
2) Read and re-read A.S.F. once a week for 2 months
(www.fastseduction.com/youarenew
3) ReStudy TheArtofApproaching
- I must go out into the field and start experimenting
- Follow the bootcamp structure.
4) ReStudy DoubleYourDating (integrate advanced program)
5) Purchase without embarrassment
- Study on the alpha male mindset
6) Read the player guide
Maybe because i want too? I have set my own goals, and you shouldn't suggest on me changing my goals.Originally posted by JSH
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Dude, why are you throwing your money around. The best thing you could do, is read the FREE DJ Bible, then go and do tonnes of approaches out in the real world.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could see how that might happen. I do think he tends to go overboard at times, but the general philosophy has helped me (e.g. not giving away your power to women, not putting them on a pedestal, etc.) I toned down his C/F just a little bit, and I've found a good balance that works for me.DYD can be damaging to one's game if they misapply it and become too much of an azzhole. I personally wish I'd never read it. Still deprogramming myself.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.