GilHarris
Don Juan
The site is listed SoSuave's "Links of Interest". Does anyone have any experience with it? Is it worth it?
Thanks.
Thanks.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
]Originally posted by Newbie05
Hi there, i'm new to this but hope this basic study guideline will be of any help to you.
Here is a study guideline im following for the next 2 months.
1) Study and Practice David Shade's
- Eye contact experiments (www.fastseduction.com/youarenew)
2) Read and re-read A.S.F. once a week for 2 months
(www.fastseduction.com/youarenew
3) ReStudy TheArtofApproaching
- I must go out into the field and start experimenting
- Follow the bootcamp structure.
4) ReStudy DoubleYourDating (integrate advanced program)
5) Purchase without embarrassment
- Study on the alpha male mindset
6) Read the player guide
Maybe because i want too? I have set my own goals, and you shouldn't suggest on me changing my goals.Originally posted by JSH
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Dude, why are you throwing your money around. The best thing you could do, is read the FREE DJ Bible, then go and do tonnes of approaches out in the real world.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could see how that might happen. I do think he tends to go overboard at times, but the general philosophy has helped me (e.g. not giving away your power to women, not putting them on a pedestal, etc.) I toned down his C/F just a little bit, and I've found a good balance that works for me.DYD can be damaging to one's game if they misapply it and become too much of an azzhole. I personally wish I'd never read it. Still deprogramming myself.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.