"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"GuyGetsGirl.com" -- does it work?

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The site is listed SoSuave's "Links of Interest". Does anyone have any experience with it? Is it worth it?

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I made the mistake of ordering that sh*t once. It's written by a woman, so that should tell you all you need to know.

If you haven't already, go with Double Your Dating--or stick with it. It's cheaper and 100 times better.
 

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Thanks.

After looking around more I couldn't find any real info on it. All links to it from everywhere are just the affiliate links.

I'll look into getting Double Your Dating.
 

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GuyGetsGirl.com? Yeah, I've looked at it. I actually ordered it simply 'cause I had an extra bit of money (mainly from a successful cookout we had). I'd unfortunately have to say that there is absolutely NOTHING in there that is useful at all.

It basically tells you to "be playful". Blah blah blah.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hi there, i'm new to this but hope this basic study guideline will be of any help to you.

Here is a study guideline im following for the next 2 months.

1) Study and Practice David Shade's
- Eye contact experiments (www.fastseduction.com/youarenew)

2) Read and re-read A.S.F. once a week for 2 months
(www.fastseduction.com/youarenew

3) ReStudy TheArtofApproaching
- I must go out into the field and start experimenting
- Follow the bootcamp structure.

4) ReStudy DoubleYourDating (integrate advanced program)

5) Purchase without embarrassment
- Study on the alpha male mindset

6) Read the player guide
 

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Originally posted by Newbie05
Hi there, i'm new to this but hope this basic study guideline will be of any help to you.

Here is a study guideline im following for the next 2 months.

1) Study and Practice David Shade's
- Eye contact experiments (www.fastseduction.com/youarenew)

2) Read and re-read A.S.F. once a week for 2 months
(www.fastseduction.com/youarenew

3) ReStudy TheArtofApproaching
- I must go out into the field and start experimenting
- Follow the bootcamp structure.

4) ReStudy DoubleYourDating (integrate advanced program)

5) Purchase without embarrassment
- Study on the alpha male mindset

6) Read the player guide
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Dude, why are you throwing your money around. The best thing you could do, is read the FREE DJ Bible, then go and do tonnes of approaches out in the real world.
 

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I've read both the DJ Bible and GuyGetsGirl and I have to say the DJ Bible is about twice as good.
 

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Originally posted by JSH
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Dude, why are you throwing your money around. The best thing you could do, is read the FREE DJ Bible, then go and do tonnes of approaches out in the real world.
Maybe because i want too? I have set my own goals, and you shouldn't suggest on me changing my goals.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible too scattered and disorganized

Time is money. The Bible has lots of good articles, but it's a real lot of reading. There's something to be said for a well-written guide that presents the info in an organized way that's fast and easy to read.

But GuyGetsGirl isn't it. I ordered it, mainly out of curiosity, and they didn't even give my money back when I requested a refund according to their supposed guarantee. Thanks for the reminder. I hope it's not too late to get the credit card to reverse the charges. Damn, I can be pretty fuggin' absentminded.

GGG's not as bad as I thought it might be, but the main gist of it is telling guys to flirt, approach and to assume a gal likes you when she hasn't made it clear she doesn't. Not bad advice for may AFCs, but very basic.

Pilinski's "Without Embarrassment, a.k.a., High Status Male" ebook is excellent. This is all about what makes a man attractive, aside from his looks, which there's only so much most people can do about.

DYD can be damaging to one's game if they misapply it and become too much of an azzhole. I personally wish I'd never read it. Still deprogramming myself.

Dating Insider, which is all about charisma and presentation did a lot more good for me.
 

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DYD can be damaging to one's game if they misapply it and become too much of an azzhole. I personally wish I'd never read it. Still deprogramming myself.
I could see how that might happen. I do think he tends to go overboard at times, but the general philosophy has helped me (e.g. not giving away your power to women, not putting them on a pedestal, etc.) I toned down his C/F just a little bit, and I've found a good balance that works for me.

As for "Without Embarrassment"...well, I've read it, and it's not bad. I thought Pilinski came across a little "chumpy" in his writing, but the principles are good.
 

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It IS ironic

Yes, Gravyboat, it is ironic that Pilinski doesn't exactly write like a high-status male. Perhaps there's a method to his madness, a way of driving home some points forcefully.

It's good that you've found a balance with the DYD philosophy. The playful teasing has always come naturally to me after I've gotten through to a gal. It never works when it's forced. The main thing that damaged my game was playing too hard to get when I should have made myself more available. Even when I really was busy. Sometimes you gotta strike when the iron is hot, ready or not!
 

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Interesting.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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