GilHarris
Don Juan
The site is listed SoSuave's "Links of Interest". Does anyone have any experience with it? Is it worth it?
Thanks.
Thanks.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
]Originally posted by Newbie05
Hi there, i'm new to this but hope this basic study guideline will be of any help to you.
Here is a study guideline im following for the next 2 months.
1) Study and Practice David Shade's
- Eye contact experiments (www.fastseduction.com/youarenew)
2) Read and re-read A.S.F. once a week for 2 months
(www.fastseduction.com/youarenew
3) ReStudy TheArtofApproaching
- I must go out into the field and start experimenting
- Follow the bootcamp structure.
4) ReStudy DoubleYourDating (integrate advanced program)
5) Purchase without embarrassment
- Study on the alpha male mindset
6) Read the player guide
Maybe because i want too? I have set my own goals, and you shouldn't suggest on me changing my goals.Originally posted by JSH
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Dude, why are you throwing your money around. The best thing you could do, is read the FREE DJ Bible, then go and do tonnes of approaches out in the real world.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could see how that might happen. I do think he tends to go overboard at times, but the general philosophy has helped me (e.g. not giving away your power to women, not putting them on a pedestal, etc.) I toned down his C/F just a little bit, and I've found a good balance that works for me.DYD can be damaging to one's game if they misapply it and become too much of an azzhole. I personally wish I'd never read it. Still deprogramming myself.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.