GilHarris
Don Juan
The site is listed SoSuave's "Links of Interest". Does anyone have any experience with it? Is it worth it?
Thanks.
Thanks.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
]Originally posted by Newbie05
Hi there, i'm new to this but hope this basic study guideline will be of any help to you.
Here is a study guideline im following for the next 2 months.
1) Study and Practice David Shade's
- Eye contact experiments (www.fastseduction.com/youarenew)
2) Read and re-read A.S.F. once a week for 2 months
(www.fastseduction.com/youarenew
3) ReStudy TheArtofApproaching
- I must go out into the field and start experimenting
- Follow the bootcamp structure.
4) ReStudy DoubleYourDating (integrate advanced program)
5) Purchase without embarrassment
- Study on the alpha male mindset
6) Read the player guide
Maybe because i want too? I have set my own goals, and you shouldn't suggest on me changing my goals.Originally posted by JSH
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Dude, why are you throwing your money around. The best thing you could do, is read the FREE DJ Bible, then go and do tonnes of approaches out in the real world.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could see how that might happen. I do think he tends to go overboard at times, but the general philosophy has helped me (e.g. not giving away your power to women, not putting them on a pedestal, etc.) I toned down his C/F just a little bit, and I've found a good balance that works for me.DYD can be damaging to one's game if they misapply it and become too much of an azzhole. I personally wish I'd never read it. Still deprogramming myself.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.