"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I haven't read a dating book in a while and that's because I believed I read all of the best ones already, the rest seem to be crap or rehashed. Well, that is until I got this book called Guy Gets Girl. It's a book written by an actual women. This is not a new development, dating books for men have been written by women for a while now. But this woman sounds like she's actually the legit types that guys approach, whereas the others not so much, or as she puts it, are divorced.

I've only read 20 pages so far but I've learned far more about women than any guy has ever told me. One line really strikes it for me:

When women get mad at a man - we get mad at all men, not just one.
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I've seen this advice before, in fact it's one of the first things I've learned. What makes this so different? Because she knows first hand and she's able to give us a better image of the situation.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've read that book too, and that line stuck out to me too, and it's true. That's why if a woman doesn't even give you a chance and ****s on your from the get-go, it's ALL her and not you. She could be having her period. She could be hating ALL men at the moment.

Women never bother me anymore because I've gotten positive responses from several of them, that one bad apple every now and then isn't gonna phase me.

There are just BAD people out there no matter what. Even BAD whole sections of the country, like a social disease. Living in a place where everyone is really friendly or smiles/makes eye-contact can do wonders for your social/psychiatric health. You can't help but to grow and become a healthy well-rounded person because of the healthy well-rounded people you don't know walking around you.
 
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Damn, I wonder if you can make that book a free download for us upcoming DJs!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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