"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I haven't read a dating book in a while and that's because I believed I read all of the best ones already, the rest seem to be crap or rehashed. Well, that is until I got this book called Guy Gets Girl. It's a book written by an actual women. This is not a new development, dating books for men have been written by women for a while now. But this woman sounds like she's actually the legit types that guys approach, whereas the others not so much, or as she puts it, are divorced.

I've only read 20 pages so far but I've learned far more about women than any guy has ever told me. One line really strikes it for me:

When women get mad at a man - we get mad at all men, not just one.
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I've seen this advice before, in fact it's one of the first things I've learned. What makes this so different? Because she knows first hand and she's able to give us a better image of the situation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've read that book too, and that line stuck out to me too, and it's true. That's why if a woman doesn't even give you a chance and ****s on your from the get-go, it's ALL her and not you. She could be having her period. She could be hating ALL men at the moment.

Women never bother me anymore because I've gotten positive responses from several of them, that one bad apple every now and then isn't gonna phase me.

There are just BAD people out there no matter what. Even BAD whole sections of the country, like a social disease. Living in a place where everyone is really friendly or smiles/makes eye-contact can do wonders for your social/psychiatric health. You can't help but to grow and become a healthy well-rounded person because of the healthy well-rounded people you don't know walking around you.
 
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Damn, I wonder if you can make that book a free download for us upcoming DJs!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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