"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Guy Gets Girl

War Against Betaism

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I haven't read a dating book in a while and that's because I believed I read all of the best ones already, the rest seem to be crap or rehashed. Well, that is until I got this book called Guy Gets Girl. It's a book written by an actual women. This is not a new development, dating books for men have been written by women for a while now. But this woman sounds like she's actually the legit types that guys approach, whereas the others not so much, or as she puts it, are divorced.

I've only read 20 pages so far but I've learned far more about women than any guy has ever told me. One line really strikes it for me:

When women get mad at a man - we get mad at all men, not just one.
I've seen this advice before, in fact it's one of the first things I've learned. What makes this so different? Because she knows first hand and she's able to give us a better image of the situation.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've read that book too, and that line stuck out to me too, and it's true. That's why if a woman doesn't even give you a chance and ****s on your from the get-go, it's ALL her and not you. She could be having her period. She could be hating ALL men at the moment.

Women never bother me anymore because I've gotten positive responses from several of them, that one bad apple every now and then isn't gonna phase me.

There are just BAD people out there no matter what. Even BAD whole sections of the country, like a social disease. Living in a place where everyone is really friendly or smiles/makes eye-contact can do wonders for your social/psychiatric health. You can't help but to grow and become a healthy well-rounded person because of the healthy well-rounded people you don't know walking around you.
 

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Damn, I wonder if you can make that book a free download for us upcoming DJs!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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