"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Guy explains why most men can't get "hot women"

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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amazingswayze

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I have the mindset he was talking about. I feel like I have to work my way up to hot chicks. My best is a 16 y.o. HB 7.5 and we made out when I was 17. She deaded me after that and she got a bf. Oh well. Everything he said was true and once I bed the hotter ones, my game will transcend. also, @deesade, your signature is on fleek.
 

G_Govan

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Even simpler, most men can't get hot women because most women aren't hot!
 

icantgetlaid

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nice link thanks for posting ... i needed to see this video ...
 

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I have to agree with deesade ... there was this girl that i couldn't believe was into me .. she was a couple points higher than i had ever dated before .. i ruined it with my own self doubt/insecurity though ... she overlooked a ton of AFC / beta behavior and i still managed to fvck it up ... she was so good looking i always felt insecure in her presence ... the message in this video hammers home the point that it doesn't matter if the girl is a 10 or a 1 ... if she's into you and you are her type ... then its all the same.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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