PeasantPlayer
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Guy explains why most men can't get "hot women"
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
I have the mindset he was talking about. I feel like I have to work my way up to hot chicks. My best is a 16 y.o. HB 7.5 and we made out when I was 17. She deaded me after that and she got a bf. Oh well. Everything he said was true and once I bed the hotter ones, my game will transcend. also, @deesade, your signature is on fleek.
icantgetlaid
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nice link thanks for posting ... i needed to see this video ...
icantgetlaid
Senior Don Juan
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I have to agree with deesade ... there was this girl that i couldn't believe was into me .. she was a couple points higher than i had ever dated before .. i ruined it with my own self doubt/insecurity though ... she overlooked a ton of AFC / beta behavior and i still managed to fvck it up ... she was so good looking i always felt insecure in her presence ... the message in this video hammers home the point that it doesn't matter if the girl is a 10 or a 1 ... if she's into you and you are her type ... then its all the same.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.