PeasantPlayer
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Guy explains why most men can't get "hot women"
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
I have the mindset he was talking about. I feel like I have to work my way up to hot chicks. My best is a 16 y.o. HB 7.5 and we made out when I was 17. She deaded me after that and she got a bf. Oh well. Everything he said was true and once I bed the hotter ones, my game will transcend. also, @deesade, your signature is on fleek.
icantgetlaid
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nice link thanks for posting ... i needed to see this video ...
icantgetlaid
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I have to agree with deesade ... there was this girl that i couldn't believe was into me .. she was a couple points higher than i had ever dated before .. i ruined it with my own self doubt/insecurity though ... she overlooked a ton of AFC / beta behavior and i still managed to fvck it up ... she was so good looking i always felt insecure in her presence ... the message in this video hammers home the point that it doesn't matter if the girl is a 10 or a 1 ... if she's into you and you are her type ... then its all the same.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.