"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It is kind of weird,

He did not accept my friend request on facebook,

I guess he feels guilty so each time after practice he chats me up.

Why is this?

It is so weird, why would someone who rejects my friend request

from facebook want to chat me up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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next time after practice just ask him if he would like to come back to your place for a shower and a deep tissue oil massage
 
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foreverAFC said:
next time after practice just ask him if he would like to come back to your place for a shower and a deep tissue oil massage
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serious answers please.
 
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Send him a picture of your Dong.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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should I ask him why he did not add me to facebook?

should I ask him why he is talking to me after he reject my friend request on facebook?
 
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Sounds like you are simply trying to make new friends but struggling. Don't make issues over things like friend requests, etc. Just have fun meeting new people and on a high note, tell them that you're going to do this or that on the weekend and then say they're welcome to join you. Then leave your phone number. Then the pressure is on them to call you. You're not really going to put pressure on them. A better way of putting it is that the pressure is off of you and you risk no rejection from other people. Keep doing this only with people you have really good interactions with.

Sometimes they will simply take your number. Other times, after taking your info, they will volunteer their contact info. This puts zero pressure on you as you're simply volunteering your information. Start getting comfortable doing this with people you want to befriend and then later expand this to women you are attracted to.
 
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tell him you are sore from practice and ask him to give you a back rub, that will also give you an excuse to take off your shirt
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The real miracle here is that you haven't thrown yourself in front of a bus.
 
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I don't have many friends,

I only have one question,

someone please JUST ANSWER IT:


why would someone who rejects my friend request

from facebook want to chat me up?
 
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TheLoner said:
Guy chats me up after soccer practice even though he rejected me from facebook
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no man just play it cool, and act as if uninterested.rememnber PUSH-PULL
ask him to come for drinks to a bar or club.
get him drunk then take him home....rest is up to you :up:

in the morning he can use the famous "i was drunk" excuse so he wont feel like a slVt.

oh just make sure to use some baby oil or lubrication otherwise you might wake up to a swollen anus ;)
 
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switch said:

no man just play it cool, and act as if uninterested.rememnber PUSH-PULL
ask him to come for drinks to a bar or club.
get him drunk then take him home....rest is up to you :up:

in the morning he can use the famous "i was drunk" excuse so he wont feel like a slVt.

oh just make sure to use some baby oil or lubrication otherwise you might wake up to a swollen anus ;)
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LOL!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't know if the OP is a troll or not, but is there any issues with gays?
 
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Forget about using Facebook to make friends. The real way to make friends is in person. It sounds like you might have an extreme fear of rejection by people in general or maybe some form of social anxiety. I would suggest counseling. Only keep going if it seems to do you some good. You can judge by results. If you're getting results, it's doing you some good. Be willing to switch counselors/therapists if you feel like you're not benefitting much from it.
 
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Yet another example of why Allen should really consider adding a "How To Game Guys" forum to SS.
 
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The only reason why he doesnt wanna be your friend is because he has low interest in you, make sure he sees you having a beer with a more cool guy than he, so he will be curious to know what that guy finds in you.

Dont try too hard to be his friend or you will creep him, tell him that you're going to play call of duty and ask him to join you then tease him anytime he blow himself on a enemy claymore.
 
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TheLoner said:
I don't have many friends,

I only have one question,

someone please JUST ANSWER IT:


why would someone who rejects my friend request

from facebook want to chat me up?
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He wants to have sex with you but is concerned that you'll become needy and want a relationship.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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