JohnChops
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How far do you guys trust your gut? I've been getting some odd gut feelings about a situation and I can't tell if it's overreaction or truth. Input here fellas?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Gut feeling
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Malcontent
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Every time I've ignored it, it's bit me in the a$$.
RedScorpion
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Trust your gut, it's your instincts kicking in. Your sub-conscious is probably picking up on signals that your conscious isn't. I'd say use logic to back it up, and investigate. Your gut is your best friend in nearly everything. Just not to confuse it with other feelings.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
If something feels funny, something IS funny. Trust it. Ease your life man, don't complicate it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
It would help if you told us a little about the "Situation" that's causing a gut feeling but overall, when ive had a gut feeling about a Girl, It was right.
Induced Drag
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Remember
D L R = Doesn't look right
D F R = Doesn't feel right
I N R = It's not right
Always trust your gut.
D L R = Doesn't look right
D F R = Doesn't feel right
I N R = It's not right
Always trust your gut.
Your gut tells you how you know things are, concious part of mind tells you how you would like it to be. There's no concern if these two meet.
That's why you tell yourself things like, 'no she would never cheat on me after all we've been together. She would never be that disrespectful', 'I'm just overreacting and being insecure, of course she loves me', 'no I don't have a problem with alcohol, this is just temporary', 'she's probably just busy and will call me a in an hour', 'she's a great and pretty girl, I have no reason to break up with her. I'll give it a bit time and I surely will fall into her'...
That's why you tell yourself things like, 'no she would never cheat on me after all we've been together. She would never be that disrespectful', 'I'm just overreacting and being insecure, of course she loves me', 'no I don't have a problem with alcohol, this is just temporary', 'she's probably just busy and will call me a in an hour', 'she's a great and pretty girl, I have no reason to break up with her. I'll give it a bit time and I surely will fall into her'...
