"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Guru Is Back

guru1000

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I missed you guys.

I took a hiatus. Was in a mini-LTR with this former playboy model. Met her in Vegas. And no, I will not throw names out there. Absolutely no substance, but hot as hell. But who cares, right?

She moves in three weeks ago. As Guru is coming of age, we agree on two things:

(a) No marriage;
(b) She will get the gift of my lineage, outside of marriage.

She agrees with this arrangement. Anyway, one week in, she disrespects me, cursing me out under the guise of PMS. I laid the good ol' boundary: "Do not ever speak to me in that manner again, understand? Yes or No?"

She nods her head in acquiesce. Ok, forgotten.

Last week, well what do you know, she does it again. So i say, "This is the second time."

"I'm really sorry," she says. What's a Guru to do?

Sure enough a few days ago, here she goes again, now a third time, in a more disrespectful tone than the prior two.

First, I reflect on my own behavior:

Was I being an azzhole? No.
Did I disrespect her in anyway? No.

I'm a Guru of reason. But not one that's very understanding of insubordination. And so:

"Pack your shvt. Get out," I state pointing to the door.

"Please," she says as her mouth drops to the floor. I exit. She has been calling ever since. hehe.

Hold women accountable for their actions. And if they don't bring their "A" game to the table, they lose YOU.

Anyhow ... how are my boys doing?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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marmel75

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I missed you guys.

I took a hiatus. Was in a mini-LTR with this former playboy model. Met her in Vegas. And no, I will not throw names out there. Absolutely no substance, but hot as hell. But who cares, right?

She moves in three weeks ago. As Guru is coming of age, we agree on two things:

(a) No marriage;
(b) She will get the gift of my lineage, outside of marriage.

She agrees with this arrangement. Anyway, one week in, she disrespects me, cursing me out under the guise of PMS. I laid the good ol' boundary: "Do not ever speak to me in that manner again, understand? Yes or No?"

She nods her head in acquiesce. Ok, forgotten.

Last week, well what do you know, she does it again. So i say, "This is the second time."

"I'm really sorry," she says. What's a Guru to do?

Sure enough a few days ago, here she goes again, now a third time, in a more disrespectful tone than the prior two.

First, I reflect on my own behavior:

Was I being an azzhole? No.
Did I disrespect her in anyway? No.

I'm a Guru of reason. But not one that's very understanding of insubordination. And so:

"Pack your shvt. Get out," I state pointing to the door.

"Please," she says as her mouth drops to the floor. I exit. She has been calling ever since. hehe.

Hold women accountable for their actions. And if they don't bring their "A" game to the table, they lose YOU.

Anyhow ... how are my boys doing?
Pimp of the year! Whats up brotha....good to see you back
 

zekko

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Welcome back, Guru.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marmel75

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And thanks tremendously for the advice on the HB 7-9 thread. Lost a fair bit of weight. The minoxidil and finasteride seem to have thickened out my thatch. Had some lightweight cosmetic work done just had my 50th birthday and most people thought it was my 40th. Had STRs with a Filipino and Malaysian girl so far this year and a couple of randoms. Currently dating this Chinese girl.

http://i651.photobucket.com/albums/uu235/kevine6/Mobile Uploads/IMG_20160414_085335685_zpsg3jowubh.jpg
Dude, you really need to get off that sh!t...they have irreparable side effects that will stay with you for life even after you stop using it...do a quick search on it...all you likely need is magnesium oil/vitamin k2...lots of people's thinning hair is caused by calcium buildup blocking the capillaries that feed the hair follicles...this calcium buildup is also building up along the walls of your arteries as well....atherosclerosis...
 

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Yep.... Dating is supposed to be fun... when it stops being 'fun', you are with the wrong woman. Life is filled with bullsh!t, without going around asking for it.

BTW I dated a Playboy model back in mid 90s. Like you she looked fine but after a couple of months became a b!tchy shrew. She was not interested in making anything long term with a junior Army officer, when there were tons of guys who made as much in a day that I made in a year throwing themselves at her. Not mentioning names, but you can figure out who she was when I say she died of a drug overdose in some millionaires mansion about 15 years ago. Which was odd because when I knew her she was clean and didn't even drink alcohol.
 

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I missed you guys.......Anyhow ... how are my boys doing?
Why would you move a chick in with you so soon? How long were you guys dating/fvcking?

How am I doing? Well, I've been okay, how have you been :)?

I was waiting to meet you in The People's Court like you threatened, but I guess you were too busy "meeting former playboy models in Vegas" :)?
 

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I received many emails and posts. Congrats on your physical achievements gents. You have put the work in and earned it. Much respect for that. And for the guys I missed, feel free to drop me PMs, and I will be here to assist in any way that I can. Be forewarned, I can be brutal. But I will equip you with the truth.

I focus much on the DJ's physicality. One thing I don't mention much is the importance of mindset, the "game." Before I started dating 9s, I would profess and believe I was dating 9s. Before my first mil, I would profess and believe I was making millions. I would BE who I'm not to become who I wanted to be. Do not be shamed by the word "authenticity," as YOU are dynamic, not static. The goal is to progress; thus, tomorrow you are not who you are today. BE tomorrow. Does that make sense to any of you?

When you are pursuing 9s+, she will KNOW who you are. Your subcommunications, your mannerisms, your tone, your confidence. Within a few minutes, you are pegged. Game is not as effective, unless you ARE. And so BE, before you achieve. That's all for now guys. I am down 12 lbs, body fat is up 7%, and I look like crap. Yes, even a Guru can fall off when in a relationship. The next 4 weeks, I am focusing only on me. And then I will be back posting my over-the-top field reports again.

Best,

Guru
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I received many emails and posts. Congrats on your physical achievements gents. You have put the work in and earned it. Much respect for that. And for the guys I missed, feel free to drop me PMs, and I will be here to assist in any way that I can. Be forewarned, I can be brutal. But I will equip you with the truth.

I focus much on the DJ's physicality. One thing I don't mention much is the importance of mindset, the "game." Before I started dating 9s, I would profess and believe I was dating 9s. Before my first mil, I would profess and believe I was making millions. I would BE who I'm not to become who I wanted to be. Do not be shamed by the word "authenticity," as YOU are dynamic, not static. The goal is to progress; thus, tomorrow you are not who you are today. BE tomorrow. Does that make sense to any of you?

When you are pursuing 9s+, she will KNOW who you are. Your subcommunications, your mannerisms, your tone, your confidence. Within a few minutes, you are pegged. Game is not as effective, unless you ARE. And so BE, before you achieve. That's all for now guys. I am down 12 lbs, body fat is up 7%, and I look like crap. Yes, even a Guru can fall off when in a relationship. The next 4 weeks, I am focusing only on me. And then I will be back posting my over-the-top field reports again.

Best,

Guru
Nothing 12 weeks of Tren can't fix....Lol
 

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I focus much on the DJ's physicality. One thing I don't mention much is the importance of mindset, the "game." Before I started dating 9s, I would profess and believe I was dating 9s. Before my first mil, I would profess and believe I was making millions. I would BE who I'm not to become who I wanted to be. Do not be shamed by the word "authenticity," as YOU are dynamic, not static. The goal is to progress; thus, tomorrow you are not who you are today. BE tomorrow. Does that make sense to any of you?
I have some minor quibbles with this, but that doesn't matter. I agree that as long as you aspire to something and are working toward it, you are being authentic by assuming that role.
 

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I missed you guys.

I took a hiatus. Was in a mini-LTR with this former playboy model. Met her in Vegas. And no, I will not throw names out there. Absolutely no substance, but hot as hell. But who cares, right?

She moves in three weeks ago. As Guru is coming of age, we agree on two things:

(a) No marriage;
(b) She will get the gift of my lineage, outside of marriage.

She agrees with this arrangement. Anyway, one week in, she disrespects me, cursing me out under the guise of PMS. I laid the good ol' boundary: "Do not ever speak to me in that manner again, understand? Yes or No?"

She nods her head in acquiesce. Ok, forgotten.

Last week, well what do you know, she does it again. So i say, "This is the second time."

"I'm really sorry," she says. What's a Guru to do?

Sure enough a few days ago, here she goes again, now a third time, in a more disrespectful tone than the prior two.


First, I reflect on my own behavior:

Was I being an azzhole? No.
Did I disrespect her in anyway? No.

I'm a Guru of reason. But not one that's very understanding of insubordination. And so:

"Pack your shvt. Get out," I state pointing to the door.

"Please," she says as her mouth drops to the floor. I exit. She has been calling ever since. hehe.

Hold women accountable for their actions. And if they don't bring their "A" game to the table, they lose YOU.

Anyhow ... how are my boys doing?
.....well speak of the fvcking devil....

And order is restored gentlemen.
 

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welcome back; i've seen you post a lot of good material back in the past. it's nice to have you back brother.
 

guru1000

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Girl referenced in the original post, called eight times last night, and text messaged, "Please pick up. I need you right now."

Should I refer her to the NoContact Challenge on this site? hehe. Ya, I'm going to hell.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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