“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Guitar - An extra weapon
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's fukkin hard. I can only sing moderately hard songs. Your music should be totally automatic, only then you can sing well.
If you're thinking of where to place the finger, you get off key really fast.
Totally. Not to sound pretintious or anything. But after a solo recital (classical) I've had a stranger girl lookup my email, and email saying that she went to my recitla and asking if I could fvck her. Another girl, a friend, told me that after hearing me play she actually went home and masturbated. It's really powerful guys, but more than the exotic element or whatever, I think is the detachment that turns them on. I mean, The image of a guy playing a fast passage and missing a note and not giving a fvck and just playing is great, says that he doesn't give a **** and that he has passions. This doesn't need to happen only with a musical instrument, but also with whatever you're good at.Originally posted by Ice Cold
But the thing is, that women are infinitely more emotional than men are. So when you start singing a slow, romantic song about love and feelings the chicks go into trance and get wet, basically.
UltimateScoundrel
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BUT, if you are still an AFC in your mind, you will fail to capitalize on it. Even now when my girlfriend hears me play, she loves it but she loses interest quick. She is a musician too.
So what I recommend is, if you are only learning guitar to pick up chicks, not only will you fail to become a good guitar player, but you will also realize it is not the best method to pick up girls.
How many times did I make eye contact with the hottest girls in clubs, only to have some guy out in the crowd go home with them?
Why? Because I had to stay up there and play all night. I didn't have the free time to DJ the girls. The girls I got were the ones who stayed around for me. I have to admit alot of those girls were aggressive and it turned me off, especially being an AFC at the time.
Now I'm not in a band, so I can't say it helps much. But I play guitar because I love it. If I had started for girls, I would have quit by now!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
K Street
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Slangin guitar onstage is the biggest rush ever. Try it.
Francisco d'Anconia
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NINJA PIMP
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the only redeeming factor was Crotch Sniffer's heartfelt ballad, LMAO!
As for learning guitar to pickup chicks,
I will quote the immortal Pook here...
"Focus on YOURSELF"
The Dominated1
Don Juan
When I meet a girl, they usually find out that I can play. But I don't play for them.
It makes them insecure because they expect me to play some AFC rubbish and declare my love for them in song.
I use it as leverage i.e "Maybe you should come over, wear that hot mini skirt and if you are good I MIGHT play you something"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Dominated1
Don Juan
This is how "focus on yourself" actually works in my favour.
fm2
Don Juan
Also, count me in as one of the Rush fans!!!!!
They've been my fave for about 20 yrs now. Who went to their show on the Vapour Trails tour? Seen the DVD yet? It's excellent!!Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Nothing reeks more AFC than guys here constantly quoting Pook. Guys, go work on yourselves not on learning guitar to pick up or on cutting and pasting Pook's quotes from the bible.
NINJA PIMP
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Just stating the facts.
There is encouragement on this thread to play songs you dont even like..one guy said to just "bite the bullet" and play some Eric Clapton for her or something like that.
Very AFC behavior
You should be playing songs you love to play for your own enjoyment. Chicks should be a by product of your craft, not the reason for it.
As for reading the Bible, IMO that thing is a waste of time. Pook and Fingers are the oly worthwhile posts on this site, at least they worked for me.
But to each his own aight?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DiamondMind
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YES! RUSH rules!Originally posted by fm2
Also, count me in as one of the Rush fans!!!!!
And yea, the new DVD is really, really good...very inspirational indeed.
We jammed a buncha Rush last night; YYZ, Red Barchetta, Spirit Of The Radio, etc. cuz my friends are all stoked over the DVD! I'm lucky in that I have a drummer and bass player who can pull that stuff off to a 'T' and not trainwreck lol!
DiamondMind
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Yea, nothing beats looking down on a dance floor filled with hotties twisting and gyrating to your band. Even better is when you get the 'look' from one (or a few) who is strutting her stuff directly in front of you ..shooting fish in a barrel at that point
DiamondMind
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I got into playing cuz I just really loved it a lot. The fact that chicks love musicians was just a side benefit. Playing in bands has definately gotten me places where I wouldn't have gotten by not playing, but 'getting the women' was never my reason for taking the guitar up.
This carries over to the DJ mindset; focus on your craft/life, etc., and the women will just 'fall into place'.
Yeah, but what has happened with me playing in a band, is the girls that are staring at me are also there with their boyfriends. Yeah I got the sex stare from these chicks but nothing more cuz they were there with their dudes.Originally posted by DiamondMind
Yea, nothing beats looking down on a dance floor filled with hotties twisting and gyrating to your band. Even better is when you get the 'look' from one (or a few) who is strutting her stuff directly in front of you ..shooting fish in a barrel at that point
But you know what I would love to be in a band again, if I could find the right crew and time for it. If I was only just working full time, instead of doing both full time work and full time grad school, I could probably pull it off. But right now I wouldn't have enough time to practice with a band without something else suffering.
then again who needs to sleep anyways?
EffluviumFire
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.