"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Guide to Negs
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Jack-Torrance
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(backhanded compliment)
Plec07
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The second also lets her notice that you are interested in more than just her looks. Making you differ from other guys.
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Thats playing with firemr_elor said:yeah, a favouite of mine when they say the obligotary "I'm so fat" routine is to say:
"Well I didn't want to say. [arm round her] Fortunately for you I like big girls"
Jack-Torrance
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LOL that's real good haha I can imagine their reaction nowmr_elor said:yeah, a favouite of mine when they say the obligotary "I'm so fat" routine is to say:
"Well I didn't want to say. [arm round her] Fortunately for you I like big girls
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Plec07
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Jack-Torrance
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One in my personal arsenal >
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There was this girl which i talked to for abit. I went over to her tent (it was a school trip) and i felt like negging. Her last name is "Zoro" so i said :"You know, my dogs name is Zoro [pause]. He died".
She gave me a couple of intrsted looks after that.
I only neg Super *****es or girls which can take jokes. Low self-esteem girls are a big nono for negs.
The Shocker
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.