She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Does that go for all sorts of cardio exercises before eating breakfast? I thought your metabolisms burn the food up quicker if you eat after doing exercise, so won't doing a little bit of cardio in the morning get the metabolisms going and burn up what you eat for breakfast quicker?Originally posted by Shiftkey:
heteropedro, eat breakfast before you run or you'll just burn up muscle instead of fat.
Bang on the mark. Well played.With cutting even more than bulking, you wanna make sure you get those 5-6 small meals in a day, and yes, you do eat less calories for each. If you're tryin to hit 1600-1800 calories, you should be ~300 cals per meal and then you'll be set.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sounds pretty well on the mark. If you excersize on an empty stomach, you burn muscle and can make yourself sick.Originally posted by DJBen
First of all I'm going to start with a, yes you guessed it, BUMP! someone sticky this please, theres some golden points here.
Secondly, I used to excersize on an empty stomach, then I read it doesnt do you that much good. My take on it? Have a banana and a sandwhich about 30 mins before you go for your cardio. I dont know how much of a good idea that is, anyone got advice?
I'd say eat about a third of your breakfast, rest a bit, do cardio, then come back and have the other 2/3.
Ben
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Alcohol is still **** for your body in many ways. For some heart conditions, you need it, but that is about it. If you want the benefits of red wine, just get dealcholized red wine or red grape juice! (Wine is grape juice w/ alchohol).Originally posted by 2xp
- alcohol : wine, especially red wine is good for your health. a glass everyday is proven to be very healthy. that's why every french (especially int the south/mediterranean coast) takes a glass of wine during lunch or dinner. now, i don't know why it is good, maybe because it has a lot of anti-oxydants
... the ratio of 207.7g protein, 503.9g carbs, 112.5g fat isOriginally posted by Industry
Here is a day in the life of eating for myself.
Meal 1
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2 Cups Oatmeal
.75 Cup Milk 2%
2 Eggs
2 tbs brown sugar
Multi Vitamin
Totals: 30.8g Protein, 87.4 Carbs, 18.2g fat, 633.6 Calories
Meall 2
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2 Bagels-Egg Sandiwches
6 oz Cottage Cheese - Lowfat 1%
2 Oanges
7.5 tsps cream cheese
Totals: 40.9g Protein, 112.8 carbs, 18.2g fat, 762.5 Calories
Meal 3
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2 Pieces Whole Wheat Bread
6 Grahm Crackers
1 Slice American Cheese
3 OZ Chicken Breast
1 Apple
1 Cup OJ
4 tsps Mayo - Lo Cal
Totals: 43g protein, 122.2 carbs, 22.9g fat, 833.6 Calories
Meal 4
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1 cup Milk 2%
2 tbs Peanut Butter - Natural
Multivitamin
Protein Shake
Totals: 35.8 g protein, 48.6 carbs, 22.6 fat, 528.2 Calories
Meal 5
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2 Cupe Rice- White
5 oz Fish - Salmon Baked
2 Cups Cantalope
1 tbs Butter
2.5 tsps Dressing - Ranch
2 cups Broccoli
Total: 57.2g protein, 132.9g Carbs, 30.6g fat, 1015.3 calories.
Whole day total: 207.7g protein, 503.9g carbs, 112.5g fat, 3773.2 Calories.
22% Protein, 53% Carbs, 27% Fat
This is pretty much right on the money with what you should be eating and your total calories. Use this as a guide for yourself. Eat, eat, eat. Take on the personality of a horse and just eat anything in sight.
Ah okay, I was just wondering...Originally posted by unnamed04
No it's not.
Perhaps by raw mass, but he was measuring the percentage in terms of calories, not weight; The same way the rest of the world does.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Those are the exact valuesOriginally posted by milkman
I have found the following values: Protein = 4 calories/g, Carb = 4 calories/g and Fat = 9 calories/g.
Does anybody know the exact values?
It seems like Diesel uses slightly differing values, because, for instance, in his calculationOriginally posted by unnamed04
Those are the exact values![]()
The spec are exact gram for gram of PURE protein, fat or carb. Whole foods contain other elements, fiber and such that the numbers almost never add up to the sum of its macronutrient content. No one knows why this is. Just make sure you meet your needs in grams first, not calories.Originally posted by milkman
It seems like Diesel uses slightly differing values, because, for instance, in his calculation
207.7g protein + 503.9g carbs + 112.5g fat = 3773.2 Calories
instead of 207.7 x 4 + 503.9 x 4 + 112.5 x 9 = 3858.9 Calories
Not the world, only out of curiosity....![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.