Interesting thing I noticed about breaking the ice w/ groups of girls. Approaching groups takes a lot of balls. When they're in groups neghitting ONE is all you need to do, then the others will swarm to her defense, which actually is just creating more opportunities to keep the convo going, and suddenly you have a really good conversation. On top of that, each one of the group is most likely going to need to input her opinion. All it took were four words that landed me 8 phone numbers all at once, and they're all legit (already called). All I said was "seriously....what the hell." They had just came from some bar that dressed them up in these funny hats, and I had to laugh when I saw them. I pretty much said what anyone would have seeing those things. The beginning opened them up to a whole lot more neghitting which spiked the interest higher. I'm just starting to notice a lot of improvements since coming here, but I really noticed the usefulness of neghitting. Anyone else have any other group strategies?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Desdinova
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Are you sure you know what neg-hitting is? Being ****y and funny isn't neg-hitting.
Whenever I approached a group, I'd usually approach the ugliest one in the group and strike up a convo with her. I'd get invited to sit at their table and move my way up to the one that I wanted for myself. Slowly strike up conversations with the second ugliest, the sorta nice one, and then the one you want. This eliminates c0ck-blocking because you've made friends with all the uglies. Then you work your best game and get her number.
Whenever I approached a group, I'd usually approach the ugliest one in the group and strike up a convo with her. I'd get invited to sit at their table and move my way up to the one that I wanted for myself. Slowly strike up conversations with the second ugliest, the sorta nice one, and then the one you want. This eliminates c0ck-blocking because you've made friends with all the uglies. Then you work your best game and get her number.
squirrels
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"Seriously...what the hell??" isn't bad at all if you say it in a fun way. In this situation, anyway. 