Interesting thing I noticed about breaking the ice w/ groups of girls. Approaching groups takes a lot of balls. When they're in groups neghitting ONE is all you need to do, then the others will swarm to her defense, which actually is just creating more opportunities to keep the convo going, and suddenly you have a really good conversation. On top of that, each one of the group is most likely going to need to input her opinion. All it took were four words that landed me 8 phone numbers all at once, and they're all legit (already called). All I said was "seriously....what the hell." They had just came from some bar that dressed them up in these funny hats, and I had to laugh when I saw them. I pretty much said what anyone would have seeing those things. The beginning opened them up to a whole lot more neghitting which spiked the interest higher. I'm just starting to notice a lot of improvements since coming here, but I really noticed the usefulness of neghitting. Anyone else have any other group strategies?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Desdinova
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Are you sure you know what neg-hitting is? Being ****y and funny isn't neg-hitting.
Whenever I approached a group, I'd usually approach the ugliest one in the group and strike up a convo with her. I'd get invited to sit at their table and move my way up to the one that I wanted for myself. Slowly strike up conversations with the second ugliest, the sorta nice one, and then the one you want. This eliminates c0ck-blocking because you've made friends with all the uglies. Then you work your best game and get her number.
Whenever I approached a group, I'd usually approach the ugliest one in the group and strike up a convo with her. I'd get invited to sit at their table and move my way up to the one that I wanted for myself. Slowly strike up conversations with the second ugliest, the sorta nice one, and then the one you want. This eliminates c0ck-blocking because you've made friends with all the uglies. Then you work your best game and get her number.
squirrels
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"Seriously...what the hell??" isn't bad at all if you say it in a fun way. In this situation, anyway. 