Group dynamics when multiple men are into the same girl(s)

[_-_WOLFSBANE_-_]

Something frustrating has happened to me twice now going out. Its really bugging me.

The first time I made the approach, I opened. Myself and 2 other guys are talking to two girls. At a certain point it is obvious that one of the girls is talking to me, laughing at my jokes, touching me....we are flirting. I go to the bathroom and see a friend real quick say hi. I come back to my seat and one of the other guys in the group is now sitting in my seat and talking to the chick and i sit down and act nonchalant. They keep talking and he leaves with her number.

The second time I made the approach, I opened. Myself and 2 other guys are talking to two girls. Its obvious one of the girls is into me. Laughing at my jokes, touching me, giving me eye contact, asking me questions. The guy sitting next to her starts having a conversation with her and I again act nonchalant and talk to the group. He get's her number. We all go outside and this girl is standing right next to me, touching me again, laughing at jokes and flirting with me. This time I didn't say anything cause honestly I felt awkward knowing she just gave him her number.


Bro. What do I gotta do, be more aggressive? Be attached to her the entire night? Or is the move to just keep it chill.

Im frustrated today.

 

[_-_WOLFSBANE_-_]

they are friends of my friend. Id put them at acquaintances.

 

[_-_WOLFSBANE_-_]

agreed on all of it. It's just a weird situation.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

they are friends of my friend. Id put them at acquaintances.

Stop going out with them. That's what you can do.

 

[Borknagar]

Reminded me of last weekend. I got a woman's number because we were mutually making fun of a group of guys all taking to one woman.

 

[The Duke]

Stop hanging out with them. Learn to isolate the girl when in that situation. Take her to a more private area so its less likely to happen.