"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

grinding

check_mate_kid_uk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2004
Messages
2,077
Reaction score
4
Location
UK
I have recenyl started going out to clubs since i am 18 and i got a question about grinding.

I heard that you suposed to just get the girls arse against your d!ck and keep with it, so thats what i have done, thing is if you keep moving with her then theres no rubbing happening! what do you do?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Juanito

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2006
Messages
64
Reaction score
0
you just grind and go with the flow

grinding is not only about some stupid friction between your d*ick and her a*s

put your head closer to hers (and when you wana say something...whisper)

put your hand on her hip or tummy!

dont be so stiff...girls can tell if guys are easy with girls (experienced) or not
 

Ricard78

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 1, 2005
Messages
65
Reaction score
0
You can do a mix of what Juanito say and have one hand on her hip one hand on her tummy. pull her body into yours, its not just a d!ck thing its about two hot bodies together.

Ricard
 

check_mate_kid_uk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2004
Messages
2,077
Reaction score
4
Location
UK
One thing that annoys me is girls handbags getting in the way! Why do they need them anyway! us guys, have our keps and money and phone in our pockets, girls have like 101 things they feel that cant go out the house with out but the bag just really gets in the way!
 

Ricard78

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 1, 2005
Messages
65
Reaction score
0
Check mate, that bag can make the diffrence between a HB 4 & 7 LOL

Ricard
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

check_mate_kid_uk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2004
Messages
2,077
Reaction score
4
Location
UK
Ricard78 said:
Check mate, that bag can make the diffrence between a HB 4 & 7 LOL

Ricard
You mean the make up? :p
 

mrRuckus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2005
Messages
4,382
Reaction score
85
check_mate_kid_uk said:
I have recenyl started going out to clubs since i am 18 and i got a question about grinding.

I heard that you suposed to just get the girls arse against your d!ck and keep with it, so thats what i have done, thing is if you keep moving with her then theres no rubbing happening! what do you do?

I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
 

Ricard78

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 1, 2005
Messages
65
Reaction score
0
Come on ruckus the guy is 18 thats the only way people dance at that age.

I think ive managed to bang every woman i have grinded so yeah they are sluts :crackup:
 

Le Parisien

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2004
Messages
812
Reaction score
7
Location
back to Paris, missing the USA
mrRuckus said:
I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
Come on, be a little more open minded man...:D

I don't know where you are from, but at least in the States, grinding is pretty common.
As long as it's not simply attention wh*ring (like grinding with a different guy every 5 minutes in order to affirm her sexual prowess), I have no problem with girls who would from time to time grind with guys they are very attracted to.

Sure on the other hand, in many other regions in the world, only total slvts would even come up with this grinding thing.

I heard that the UK is a little americanized regarding this grinding practice:D , but I doubt it's as common and commonly accepted as in the US.
 

Macgyver

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2006
Messages
222
Reaction score
1
mrRuckus said:
I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
Most girls will experience dry humping. And most guys or at least the right guys will experience it too. So get off the soap box.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

gimmeyofonenumba

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2005
Messages
520
Reaction score
2
Location
GA
Dude..from experience, never go up to a chick that is dancing with her friends and start grinding. You ahve to make sure she is like extra slutty or in the mood for a blind grind. Otherwise you just gotta dance not so horny at first and escalate to the grinding/dry humping point.
 
Top