"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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I have recenyl started going out to clubs since i am 18 and i got a question about grinding.

I heard that you suposed to just get the girls arse against your d!ck and keep with it, so thats what i have done, thing is if you keep moving with her then theres no rubbing happening! what do you do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Juanito

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you just grind and go with the flow

grinding is not only about some stupid friction between your d*ick and her a*s

put your head closer to hers (and when you wana say something...whisper)

put your hand on her hip or tummy!

dont be so stiff...girls can tell if guys are easy with girls (experienced) or not
 

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You can do a mix of what Juanito say and have one hand on her hip one hand on her tummy. pull her body into yours, its not just a d!ck thing its about two hot bodies together.

Ricard
 

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One thing that annoys me is girls handbags getting in the way! Why do they need them anyway! us guys, have our keps and money and phone in our pockets, girls have like 101 things they feel that cant go out the house with out but the bag just really gets in the way!
 

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Check mate, that bag can make the diffrence between a HB 4 & 7 LOL

Ricard
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Ricard78 said:
Check mate, that bag can make the diffrence between a HB 4 & 7 LOL

Ricard
You mean the make up? :p
 

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
I have recenyl started going out to clubs since i am 18 and i got a question about grinding.

I heard that you suposed to just get the girls arse against your d!ck and keep with it, so thats what i have done, thing is if you keep moving with her then theres no rubbing happening! what do you do?

I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
 

Ricard78

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Come on ruckus the guy is 18 thats the only way people dance at that age.

I think ive managed to bang every woman i have grinded so yeah they are sluts :crackup:
 

Le Parisien

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mrRuckus said:
I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
Come on, be a little more open minded man...:D

I don't know where you are from, but at least in the States, grinding is pretty common.
As long as it's not simply attention wh*ring (like grinding with a different guy every 5 minutes in order to affirm her sexual prowess), I have no problem with girls who would from time to time grind with guys they are very attracted to.

Sure on the other hand, in many other regions in the world, only total slvts would even come up with this grinding thing.

I heard that the UK is a little americanized regarding this grinding practice:D , but I doubt it's as common and commonly accepted as in the US.
 

Macgyver

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mrRuckus said:
I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
Most girls will experience dry humping. And most guys or at least the right guys will experience it too. So get off the soap box.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Dude..from experience, never go up to a chick that is dancing with her friends and start grinding. You ahve to make sure she is like extra slutty or in the mood for a blind grind. Otherwise you just gotta dance not so horny at first and escalate to the grinding/dry humping point.
 
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