"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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I have recenyl started going out to clubs since i am 18 and i got a question about grinding.

I heard that you suposed to just get the girls arse against your d!ck and keep with it, so thats what i have done, thing is if you keep moving with her then theres no rubbing happening! what do you do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Juanito

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you just grind and go with the flow

grinding is not only about some stupid friction between your d*ick and her a*s

put your head closer to hers (and when you wana say something...whisper)

put your hand on her hip or tummy!

dont be so stiff...girls can tell if guys are easy with girls (experienced) or not
 

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You can do a mix of what Juanito say and have one hand on her hip one hand on her tummy. pull her body into yours, its not just a d!ck thing its about two hot bodies together.

Ricard
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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One thing that annoys me is girls handbags getting in the way! Why do they need them anyway! us guys, have our keps and money and phone in our pockets, girls have like 101 things they feel that cant go out the house with out but the bag just really gets in the way!
 

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Check mate, that bag can make the diffrence between a HB 4 & 7 LOL

Ricard
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Ricard78 said:
Check mate, that bag can make the diffrence between a HB 4 & 7 LOL

Ricard
You mean the make up? :p
 

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
I have recenyl started going out to clubs since i am 18 and i got a question about grinding.

I heard that you suposed to just get the girls arse against your d!ck and keep with it, so thats what i have done, thing is if you keep moving with her then theres no rubbing happening! what do you do?

I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
 

Ricard78

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Come on ruckus the guy is 18 thats the only way people dance at that age.

I think ive managed to bang every woman i have grinded so yeah they are sluts :crackup:
 

Le Parisien

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mrRuckus said:
I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
Come on, be a little more open minded man...:D

I don't know where you are from, but at least in the States, grinding is pretty common.
As long as it's not simply attention wh*ring (like grinding with a different guy every 5 minutes in order to affirm her sexual prowess), I have no problem with girls who would from time to time grind with guys they are very attracted to.

Sure on the other hand, in many other regions in the world, only total slvts would even come up with this grinding thing.

I heard that the UK is a little americanized regarding this grinding practice:D , but I doubt it's as common and commonly accepted as in the US.
 

Macgyver

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mrRuckus said:
I won't even touch a girl that grinds.

Dirty floor slut without the sex.
Most girls will experience dry humping. And most guys or at least the right guys will experience it too. So get off the soap box.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Dude..from experience, never go up to a chick that is dancing with her friends and start grinding. You ahve to make sure she is like extra slutty or in the mood for a blind grind. Otherwise you just gotta dance not so horny at first and escalate to the grinding/dry humping point.
 
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