“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
grinding with chicks. is it an ioi
- Thread starter choonight
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You went to the club with a group, you ended up grinding with the girls you went to the club with from your group and you're wondering if they want you.
Let me break down something to you. Every saturday night all over the world there are groups of people going to the club together AND DANCING TOGETHER! Anytime you take girls to the club either by yourself or in a group 99% of the time they are likely to be dancing with you. It's part of club culture. Groups dancing around each other or with each other. It doesn't mean that hor that was grinding on you all of a sudden is madly in love with you. The previous week she was probably grinding on some other dude it doesn't mean a thing.
Instead of being confused making threads on this forum and thinking some hor now all of a sudden wants you because of a little grinding why don't you keep it simple? Call this girl that was grinding on you and ask her out. Stop complicating yourself.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
IOIs as isolated things seem pretty dumb to me. If you're just starting you may not have a sense for when things are going well. But you'll develop it soon, and then you won't need to worry about some little thing she did.
1 Bad Dude
Don Juan
Sure it is. In dancing.
I want to build on what f283000 has said. Stop treating girls like there some whole complete social being with all the answers and social programming that you somehow didn't get. They get nervous and insecure and unsure just as much as any guy. There are several reasons a girl will grind dance on you. First, she can get away with it on the dance floor. It becomes an excuse for questionable behavior. Like alcohol is for sleeping with you. Second, she's getting comfortable doing something with you, a guy she doesn't care about, so she can do it confidently to the guy she's head over heals for. Third, it IS just dancing to her. And fourth, she likes you.
Grinding with you should be taken as validation. That she found you attractive enough to do it with. And. She felt you were grounded enough NOT to make a huge deal out of it. If you make a huge deal out of it, you destroy your social proof with her. They don't want to fvck on the dance floor. If they did, they'd become p0rn stars. STOP WATCHING P0RN. The best thing to do is treat it like it is. Dancing. Go sit down somewhere and carry on like normal. Build on the dancing. "You like dancing?" blah blah. "I like dancing with you. Me and my boys go out every sat. You should bang with us <haha> I mean hang with us" blah blah. "Cool. let me get your number." Take her dancing a few more times. Viola! You get HB social proof and a potential fvck buddy. Just keep escalating the dancing.
Thats it. Other girls will take notice of how cool you handle her grinding.