"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Grinding?? JUST DO IT???
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Here's how to go from grinding to making out (this has worked for me 4/4 times):
1. As you're grinding, you should have your hands on her hips and be moving in time with each other.
2. With ONE of your hands hold her equivalent hand. So, for example, hold her left hand with your left hand. I do this by gradually bringing down MY hand from her hip to HER hand via her arm. If she won't hold your hand, you probably won't get any further with her, but every girl I've tried this with held my hand and we ended up making out or more.
3. Sniff her neck and/or whisper in her ear over one of her shoulders (if you're holding her left hand, go over her right shoulder). She knows what's up know so you can try to kiss her here.
4. Otherwise, with your hand that is holding her hand, spin her around for the makeout. If you've got her this far, she should be very keen, but if she's not she'll say so and/or resist the spin move.
1. As you're grinding, you should have your hands on her hips and be moving in time with each other.
2. With ONE of your hands hold her equivalent hand. So, for example, hold her left hand with your left hand. I do this by gradually bringing down MY hand from her hip to HER hand via her arm. If she won't hold your hand, you probably won't get any further with her, but every girl I've tried this with held my hand and we ended up making out or more.
3. Sniff her neck and/or whisper in her ear over one of her shoulders (if you're holding her left hand, go over her right shoulder). She knows what's up know so you can try to kiss her here.
4. Otherwise, with your hand that is holding her hand, spin her around for the makeout. If you've got her this far, she should be very keen, but if she's not she'll say so and/or resist the spin move.
Lets start a poll! Seriously though straight up the middle.Boxer said:Just an other question about grinding.
My erect **** was pressed down for the entire time and it really hurt. What position is it supposed to be in?
Puts me partially out but who cares? People think I'm a d*khead
anyway. Never had a complaint laying it in the a$$ crack - its
what that thing is built for.
are you serious? I think your leveling us.Boxer said:Just an other question about grinding.
My erect **** was pressed down for the entire time and it really hurt. What position is it supposed to be in?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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when u grind iwth a girl, can they feel the size of ur dik? i don't think my dik is the largest so i dont wanna be embarassed or w.e
I'm dead serious....f283000 said:are you serious? I think your leveling us.
I agree with your opinion. I've tried. thanks for sharing yourpeacefire said:okay bud, I use to suck at this, now mm rlly good at it. heres what you do. first of all you never ask a girl if u can grind! you're a man and you take what you want when you want. but you shouldnt just go and grab her hips. Wrong wrong wrong. grindin is not about rubbingur **** to a girls ass. its all abou ur **** and her ass moving properly to the beat. so how do I start? its different. first of all if two or more girls are dancing together, its not wise to go alone, becuase they are more likely to say no. so its best to have a wing man,so u can go on 1 girl and ur wing on the other. now how do you start. you smoothly make your way to the girl go behind her,make sure your hands are on ur side not in the air. you get ur **** slowly touching her ass and you move to the beat. once you see that shes playing along or like it. put a few of ur fingers a littl above her hips. by now your stomach should be close to her. then you bring down your hands on to her hips. now trying moving yourself with the beat and afterlike several minutes now move your hands up and down with the beat, but dont have all your palm on her skins as u go up and down be smooth your goal is to arouse her. now one trick I use is as im moving my hands up and down, i move one of them up so my palm touches her tits for a second. slowl after some time I start moving my hand up and down from her hips to her thighs. and slowly escalate towards her puss, just rub the top part, not the actual lips. but in ur case u might not be able to do some of this stuff, for its a school homecoming dance. so yeh omit the boo, vagina, and thigh part and it shud work. but again I never got it one the first try, so if its ur first time doing it, ur probably going to fail a few times, dont get upset its okay. youll get it eventually. also if a girl tells u to leave or even to fuvk off dont get angry and start ****. juz smile ang move on to the next, always appear as if ur enjoying the music more thatn ur enjoying the girls ass rubbing on ur ****. whatI do at times is I sometimes sing along with the song. so yeh man this is how I do it in the club good luck. and dont worry if u fail. ull get it juz keep practicing.
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i did it... it went well. some girls would just like walk away but w.e no biggie. but my way was just to bump and grind with hands until she responded by getting closer... should i have been more proactive and grabbed her hips if she didn't respond negatively(like walking away)?