"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Grinding?? JUST DO IT???
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Here's how to go from grinding to making out (this has worked for me 4/4 times):
1. As you're grinding, you should have your hands on her hips and be moving in time with each other.
2. With ONE of your hands hold her equivalent hand. So, for example, hold her left hand with your left hand. I do this by gradually bringing down MY hand from her hip to HER hand via her arm. If she won't hold your hand, you probably won't get any further with her, but every girl I've tried this with held my hand and we ended up making out or more.
3. Sniff her neck and/or whisper in her ear over one of her shoulders (if you're holding her left hand, go over her right shoulder). She knows what's up know so you can try to kiss her here.
4. Otherwise, with your hand that is holding her hand, spin her around for the makeout. If you've got her this far, she should be very keen, but if she's not she'll say so and/or resist the spin move.
1. As you're grinding, you should have your hands on her hips and be moving in time with each other.
2. With ONE of your hands hold her equivalent hand. So, for example, hold her left hand with your left hand. I do this by gradually bringing down MY hand from her hip to HER hand via her arm. If she won't hold your hand, you probably won't get any further with her, but every girl I've tried this with held my hand and we ended up making out or more.
3. Sniff her neck and/or whisper in her ear over one of her shoulders (if you're holding her left hand, go over her right shoulder). She knows what's up know so you can try to kiss her here.
4. Otherwise, with your hand that is holding her hand, spin her around for the makeout. If you've got her this far, she should be very keen, but if she's not she'll say so and/or resist the spin move.
Lets start a poll! Seriously though straight up the middle.Boxer said:Just an other question about grinding.
My erect **** was pressed down for the entire time and it really hurt. What position is it supposed to be in?
Puts me partially out but who cares? People think I'm a d*khead
anyway. Never had a complaint laying it in the a$$ crack - its
what that thing is built for.
are you serious? I think your leveling us.Boxer said:Just an other question about grinding.
My erect **** was pressed down for the entire time and it really hurt. What position is it supposed to be in?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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when u grind iwth a girl, can they feel the size of ur dik? i don't think my dik is the largest so i dont wanna be embarassed or w.e
I'm dead serious....f283000 said:are you serious? I think your leveling us.
I agree with your opinion. I've tried. thanks for sharing yourpeacefire said:okay bud, I use to suck at this, now mm rlly good at it. heres what you do. first of all you never ask a girl if u can grind! you're a man and you take what you want when you want. but you shouldnt just go and grab her hips. Wrong wrong wrong. grindin is not about rubbingur **** to a girls ass. its all abou ur **** and her ass moving properly to the beat. so how do I start? its different. first of all if two or more girls are dancing together, its not wise to go alone, becuase they are more likely to say no. so its best to have a wing man,so u can go on 1 girl and ur wing on the other. now how do you start. you smoothly make your way to the girl go behind her,make sure your hands are on ur side not in the air. you get ur **** slowly touching her ass and you move to the beat. once you see that shes playing along or like it. put a few of ur fingers a littl above her hips. by now your stomach should be close to her. then you bring down your hands on to her hips. now trying moving yourself with the beat and afterlike several minutes now move your hands up and down with the beat, but dont have all your palm on her skins as u go up and down be smooth your goal is to arouse her. now one trick I use is as im moving my hands up and down, i move one of them up so my palm touches her tits for a second. slowl after some time I start moving my hand up and down from her hips to her thighs. and slowly escalate towards her puss, just rub the top part, not the actual lips. but in ur case u might not be able to do some of this stuff, for its a school homecoming dance. so yeh omit the boo, vagina, and thigh part and it shud work. but again I never got it one the first try, so if its ur first time doing it, ur probably going to fail a few times, dont get upset its okay. youll get it eventually. also if a girl tells u to leave or even to fuvk off dont get angry and start ****. juz smile ang move on to the next, always appear as if ur enjoying the music more thatn ur enjoying the girls ass rubbing on ur ****. whatI do at times is I sometimes sing along with the song. so yeh man this is how I do it in the club good luck. and dont worry if u fail. ull get it juz keep practicing.
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i did it... it went well. some girls would just like walk away but w.e no biggie. but my way was just to bump and grind with hands until she responded by getting closer... should i have been more proactive and grabbed her hips if she didn't respond negatively(like walking away)?