"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Grinding?? JUST DO IT???
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Here's how to go from grinding to making out (this has worked for me 4/4 times):
1. As you're grinding, you should have your hands on her hips and be moving in time with each other.
2. With ONE of your hands hold her equivalent hand. So, for example, hold her left hand with your left hand. I do this by gradually bringing down MY hand from her hip to HER hand via her arm. If she won't hold your hand, you probably won't get any further with her, but every girl I've tried this with held my hand and we ended up making out or more.
3. Sniff her neck and/or whisper in her ear over one of her shoulders (if you're holding her left hand, go over her right shoulder). She knows what's up know so you can try to kiss her here.
4. Otherwise, with your hand that is holding her hand, spin her around for the makeout. If you've got her this far, she should be very keen, but if she's not she'll say so and/or resist the spin move.
1. As you're grinding, you should have your hands on her hips and be moving in time with each other.
2. With ONE of your hands hold her equivalent hand. So, for example, hold her left hand with your left hand. I do this by gradually bringing down MY hand from her hip to HER hand via her arm. If she won't hold your hand, you probably won't get any further with her, but every girl I've tried this with held my hand and we ended up making out or more.
3. Sniff her neck and/or whisper in her ear over one of her shoulders (if you're holding her left hand, go over her right shoulder). She knows what's up know so you can try to kiss her here.
4. Otherwise, with your hand that is holding her hand, spin her around for the makeout. If you've got her this far, she should be very keen, but if she's not she'll say so and/or resist the spin move.
Lets start a poll! Seriously though straight up the middle.Boxer said:Just an other question about grinding.
My erect **** was pressed down for the entire time and it really hurt. What position is it supposed to be in?
Puts me partially out but who cares? People think I'm a d*khead
anyway. Never had a complaint laying it in the a$$ crack - its
what that thing is built for.
are you serious? I think your leveling us.Boxer said:Just an other question about grinding.
My erect **** was pressed down for the entire time and it really hurt. What position is it supposed to be in?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
kingxxxman
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when u grind iwth a girl, can they feel the size of ur dik? i don't think my dik is the largest so i dont wanna be embarassed or w.e
I'm dead serious....f283000 said:are you serious? I think your leveling us.
I agree with your opinion. I've tried. thanks for sharing yourpeacefire said:okay bud, I use to suck at this, now mm rlly good at it. heres what you do. first of all you never ask a girl if u can grind! you're a man and you take what you want when you want. but you shouldnt just go and grab her hips. Wrong wrong wrong. grindin is not about rubbingur **** to a girls ass. its all abou ur **** and her ass moving properly to the beat. so how do I start? its different. first of all if two or more girls are dancing together, its not wise to go alone, becuase they are more likely to say no. so its best to have a wing man,so u can go on 1 girl and ur wing on the other. now how do you start. you smoothly make your way to the girl go behind her,make sure your hands are on ur side not in the air. you get ur **** slowly touching her ass and you move to the beat. once you see that shes playing along or like it. put a few of ur fingers a littl above her hips. by now your stomach should be close to her. then you bring down your hands on to her hips. now trying moving yourself with the beat and afterlike several minutes now move your hands up and down with the beat, but dont have all your palm on her skins as u go up and down be smooth your goal is to arouse her. now one trick I use is as im moving my hands up and down, i move one of them up so my palm touches her tits for a second. slowl after some time I start moving my hand up and down from her hips to her thighs. and slowly escalate towards her puss, just rub the top part, not the actual lips. but in ur case u might not be able to do some of this stuff, for its a school homecoming dance. so yeh omit the boo, vagina, and thigh part and it shud work. but again I never got it one the first try, so if its ur first time doing it, ur probably going to fail a few times, dont get upset its okay. youll get it eventually. also if a girl tells u to leave or even to fuvk off dont get angry and start ****. juz smile ang move on to the next, always appear as if ur enjoying the music more thatn ur enjoying the girls ass rubbing on ur ****. whatI do at times is I sometimes sing along with the song. so yeh man this is how I do it in the club good luck. and dont worry if u fail. ull get it juz keep practicing.
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i did it... it went well. some girls would just like walk away but w.e no biggie. but my way was just to bump and grind with hands until she responded by getting closer... should i have been more proactive and grabbed her hips if she didn't respond negatively(like walking away)?