"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Greying Hairy Chest - good or bad look?

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I’m 54 and I have a greying hairy chest. I did dye it with beard dye when going on beach holidays, but the grey / white area is getting larger now and more difficult to cover up.
When wearing medium cut T-shirts there is an area of white hair on show.

Is this a good or bad look for a guy of my age and should I do anything about it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tyrion

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Desperation is a bit strong. There is a big market for hair & beard dye.

I dyed it when it was a small patch pre covid, now it’s larger and when on a beach holiday this year I never bothered dyeing it.
 

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You'd be amazed how many men use botox, hair dyes etc. I didn't realize it until I became a close friend with a successful aesthetician - we'll sit and have a beer sometimes and he will point out men who've had this or that done, this is in a top-5 in the US zip code so it's kind of rampant. I don't really look at men much so I'd never really analyzed why a guy who is in his 60's has a head full of dark brown hair with no grays...
 

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Greying Hairy Chest - good or bad look?

If you give a crap about it - bad

If you don't give a crap about it - good
 

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one of my ex-s who was 28 liked it. She said it was ‘gruff sexy’. Otherwise I’ve had no comments. Pro or con.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That is one of my top 5 most disliked songs

As I’m bald / shaven headed I was told a few times in the past that I looked like Right Said Fred.
Didn’t know how to take that one!
 

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You'd be amazed how many men use botox, hair dyes etc. I didn't realize it until I became a close friend with a successful aesthetician - we'll sit and have a beer sometimes and he will point out men who've had this or that done, this is in a top-5 in the US zip code so it's kind of rampant. I don't really look at men much so I'd never really analyzed why a guy who is in his 60's has a head full of dark brown hair with no grays...
I noticed that Trump and some of the men surrounding him look like they have had work done on them.

Most notable was Rudy Gulliani and his hair dye running down the side of his sweating face as he was giving a press conference!
 

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I shave the upper half of my body. Some might like it but more will be turned off by it whereas the ones that like it aren't turned off by a smooth body.
 

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I shave the upper half of my body. Some might like it but more will be turned off by it whereas the ones that like it aren't turned off by a smooth body.
Is shaving high maintenance and how often do you shave it?
Is it prickly or itchy as it starts to grow back?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Is shaving high maintenance and how often do you shave it?
Is it prickly or itchy as it starts to grow back?
Maybe once every 3 weeks. Probably takes like 15 mins.

It's not too bad, it can be a little prickly for a few days but then it's fine
 

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I would say just shave it... kudos to you my friend at 54 and still caring.
 

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Rock the greys imho. You can't get that color naturally.
 

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That is one of my top 5 most disliked songs

As I’m bald / shaven headed I was told a few times in the past that I looked like Right Said Fred.
Didn’t know how to take that one!
LMAO
 

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I’m 54 and I have a greying hairy chest. I did dye it with beard dye when going on beach holidays, but the grey / white area is getting larger now and more difficult to cover up.
When wearing medium cut T-shirts there is an area of white hair on show.

Is this a good or bad look for a guy of my age and should I do anything about it?
I finally embraced it this winter. Decided idgaf. Grew out my facial hair which is more salt than pepper. Got more unsolicited compliments than I ever expected. And largely from the 20 y.o.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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