"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gotta delete some search results off search engines

thereisnotryonlydo

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Hi Everyone,

I'm looking to delete some search engine results where i make some controversial statements. The statements are in regards to opinions on women who are too into their careers. It got syndicated on 2 blogs. I got both to remove my name from it but it still shows up in search engine results of my name because of the "cached".

Will this go away automatically soon? Is there anything I can do to get these off search engines? Is there any way i can approach the webmasters and give them an easy step by step thing to do so the "cache" is erased from these blog posts?

Your help would be greatly appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Create Reality

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Call the search engines and talk with the people who handle that stuff.
 

Le Parisien

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If the blog sites had your entries deleted, then after the next search engines cache refresh on the concerned pages, they will be gone automatically.

My guess is that with google, it takes from 6 months to one year.
 

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hmm I'm thinking if i were to find a way to have search engines spider the webpages immediately or in a short period of time, i could wipe out my name from the cached pages since my name was wiped out.

Does anyone know a quick way to have these pages spidered again immediately?

google: got 2 unwanted
yahoo: CLEAR NOW!
MSN: 1 unwanted
 

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Interesting, I'd like to know how!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How unique is your name? If it's along the lines of John Smith, I think you'll be OK. If it's too unique, then be sure to let us know how it goes when you do figure it out.
 

thereisnotryonlydo

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my name is VERY uncommon

ya i think im going to contact google and ask them to take the results off so it gets spidered again. I already got the webmasters to erase my name. I'm just going to tell them that a person with the same name as me has unfavorable results which i got webmasters to take off their listings. But it still shows in the listings and im looking for a new job recently and if they see my name associated with that it wont matter if its me or not.
 
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