"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gotta delete some search results off search engines

thereisnotryonlydo

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Hi Everyone,

I'm looking to delete some search engine results where i make some controversial statements. The statements are in regards to opinions on women who are too into their careers. It got syndicated on 2 blogs. I got both to remove my name from it but it still shows up in search engine results of my name because of the "cached".

Will this go away automatically soon? Is there anything I can do to get these off search engines? Is there any way i can approach the webmasters and give them an easy step by step thing to do so the "cache" is erased from these blog posts?

Your help would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Create Reality

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Call the search engines and talk with the people who handle that stuff.
 

Le Parisien

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If the blog sites had your entries deleted, then after the next search engines cache refresh on the concerned pages, they will be gone automatically.

My guess is that with google, it takes from 6 months to one year.
 

thereisnotryonlydo

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hmm I'm thinking if i were to find a way to have search engines spider the webpages immediately or in a short period of time, i could wipe out my name from the cached pages since my name was wiped out.

Does anyone know a quick way to have these pages spidered again immediately?

google: got 2 unwanted
yahoo: CLEAR NOW!
MSN: 1 unwanted
 

Lion

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Interesting, I'd like to know how!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ShizamDaMan

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How unique is your name? If it's along the lines of John Smith, I think you'll be OK. If it's too unique, then be sure to let us know how it goes when you do figure it out.
 

thereisnotryonlydo

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my name is VERY uncommon

ya i think im going to contact google and ask them to take the results off so it gets spidered again. I already got the webmasters to erase my name. I'm just going to tell them that a person with the same name as me has unfavorable results which i got webmasters to take off their listings. But it still shows in the listings and im looking for a new job recently and if they see my name associated with that it wont matter if its me or not.
 
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