Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's not that I'm known for ****y it's just thats how my approach comes out when I'm talking with girls. I don't generally act ****y unless I am chatting a girl up.Sir Psycho Sexy said:If you are known as ****y at highschool already then C andF is ruined for you. ****y and funny is for guys who need to display confidence to girls, to show them they think high of themselves.
If everyone at school already knows you think high of yourself then it is counterproductive in every way possible.
The DJ bible probably has some C&F articles, read them
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wow, is this what people here say to girls? That's terrible.Bladerunner said:Think of it like this:
Every time you say something ****y, follow it up with something funny that builds on your ****y statement.
Example: (after hugging a girl) "Your hugs suck, mine are way better... in fact, my hugs are SO good that they sell them in the ice cream isle at Vons(/local grocery store)"
*girl drops frisbee*afc no more said:Wow, is this what people here say to girls? That's terrible.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.