"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got #, went on date, FB profile says she has BF??

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Was drunk at a baseball game, and managed to talk it up with a cute asian and her friend in the concession line. I got the Asian girl's number and called her a few days later to set up a date for tea.

Went on date, was fun and I think I did good. She was laughing and had a good time. Did light kino, should of done more but this is what I did. She showed signs of high interest.

Fast forward to today when we finally find each other on facebook. I check out her page and it says, "In a Relationship" but isn't linked to another page so I don't know if she's doing this to stop creepers, or actually has a BF.

She heads back to Japan in about 4-5 weeks so I figure this is definately enough time for me to get a lay in. I'm not sure if she's got a BF back in Japan that she's willing to cheat on or what but I'm a little curious about my next move. If she shoots me down and says she has a BF then she is done obviously.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't worry about it and keep going perhaps?
 
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yeah, just go for the lay, even if you don't succeed you'll have that much more experience under your belt
 
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go for it, what's the worst that can happen? You'll have fun with her before she leaves?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JoeJoe85 said:
Don't trust facebook
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yes don't. Who knows, maybe she doesn't update it. One girl I know has on her facebook that she's in a relationship with some guy. But I know for a fact that she's dating someone else and she put that status when they were having a fight a few weeks ago (not sure why, seems kinda childish). So don't trust facebook, with she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to cheat on him she'll tell you as soon as you make a move on her.
 
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itishe said:
Was drunk at a baseball game, and managed to talk it up with a cute asian and her friend in the concession line. I got the Asian girl's number and called her a few days later to set up a date for tea.

Went on date, was fun and I think I did good. She was laughing and had a good time. Did light kino, should of done more but this is what I did. She showed signs of high interest.

Fast forward to today when we finally find each other on facebook. I check out her page and it says, "In a Relationship" but isn't linked to another page so I don't know if she's doing this to stop creepers, or actually has a BF.

She heads back to Japan in about 4-5 weeks so I figure this is definately enough time for me to get a lay in. I'm not sure if she's got a BF back in Japan that she's willing to cheat on or what but I'm a little curious about my next move. If she shoots me down and says she has a BF then she is done obviously.
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Didn't you just post the same thread yesterday? Your mentality of "everyone pay attention to me and make me feel important" may be the reason you're having problems with girls.
 
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DonJuan11 said:
Didn't you just post the same thread yesterday? Your mentality of "everyone pay attention to me and make me feel important" may be the reason you're having problems with girls.
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Yeah man, I come here asking for advice so that I can beat my chest with pride that I'm going on dates :crazy:

These are new situations for me so let's not give me a hard time? I'll just keep going about my business with her and see if she says anything like you guys recommended.

A movie a good 2nd date?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sent her a text saying I had a great time the other night, we should do it again. She replied, "yep! For sure :)"

She later left this on my FB page:


"i should've studied today but i wasnt productive as u know:pha
anyway if u have a party after finals, please let me know! seriously i wanna join "real american party" before i go back!"

Yeah I think I can bag this one no problem :cheer:
 
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