"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Got #, went on date, FB profile says she has BF??

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Was drunk at a baseball game, and managed to talk it up with a cute asian and her friend in the concession line. I got the Asian girl's number and called her a few days later to set up a date for tea.

Went on date, was fun and I think I did good. She was laughing and had a good time. Did light kino, should of done more but this is what I did. She showed signs of high interest.

Fast forward to today when we finally find each other on facebook. I check out her page and it says, "In a Relationship" but isn't linked to another page so I don't know if she's doing this to stop creepers, or actually has a BF.

She heads back to Japan in about 4-5 weeks so I figure this is definately enough time for me to get a lay in. I'm not sure if she's got a BF back in Japan that she's willing to cheat on or what but I'm a little curious about my next move. If she shoots me down and says she has a BF then she is done obviously.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't worry about it and keep going perhaps?
 
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yeah, just go for the lay, even if you don't succeed you'll have that much more experience under your belt
 
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go for it, what's the worst that can happen? You'll have fun with her before she leaves?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JoeJoe85 said:
Don't trust facebook
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yes don't. Who knows, maybe she doesn't update it. One girl I know has on her facebook that she's in a relationship with some guy. But I know for a fact that she's dating someone else and she put that status when they were having a fight a few weeks ago (not sure why, seems kinda childish). So don't trust facebook, with she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to cheat on him she'll tell you as soon as you make a move on her.
 
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itishe said:
Was drunk at a baseball game, and managed to talk it up with a cute asian and her friend in the concession line. I got the Asian girl's number and called her a few days later to set up a date for tea.

Went on date, was fun and I think I did good. She was laughing and had a good time. Did light kino, should of done more but this is what I did. She showed signs of high interest.

Fast forward to today when we finally find each other on facebook. I check out her page and it says, "In a Relationship" but isn't linked to another page so I don't know if she's doing this to stop creepers, or actually has a BF.

She heads back to Japan in about 4-5 weeks so I figure this is definately enough time for me to get a lay in. I'm not sure if she's got a BF back in Japan that she's willing to cheat on or what but I'm a little curious about my next move. If she shoots me down and says she has a BF then she is done obviously.
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Didn't you just post the same thread yesterday? Your mentality of "everyone pay attention to me and make me feel important" may be the reason you're having problems with girls.
 
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Didn't you just post the same thread yesterday? Your mentality of "everyone pay attention to me and make me feel important" may be the reason you're having problems with girls.
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Yeah man, I come here asking for advice so that I can beat my chest with pride that I'm going on dates :crazy:

These are new situations for me so let's not give me a hard time? I'll just keep going about my business with her and see if she says anything like you guys recommended.

A movie a good 2nd date?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sent her a text saying I had a great time the other night, we should do it again. She replied, "yep! For sure :)"

She later left this on my FB page:


"i should've studied today but i wasnt productive as u know:pha
anyway if u have a party after finals, please let me know! seriously i wanna join "real american party" before i go back!"

Yeah I think I can bag this one no problem :cheer:
 
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