"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Got the girl. Should I call?

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needsomehelp

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Alright, I was out clubbing the other night and got hooked up. Made out the whole night. Even could've fingered if I wanted to, but didn't do it.

I even got her number after she left and said something like "Maybe we can meet again".

While I certainly can't say I have any feelings for this girl (prolly never will/can), I do wanna get laid. I dont want to trick her into believing I'm looking for a relationship (frankly I dont think she's looking for one either).

Should I call?

2 days have passed since the night I met her (in other words, I met her on saturday and didnt call her yesterday).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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call her and ask her if she wants to kick it

if she does then you're good

if she says no, then move on and back to the club
 
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dude do what you want to do.

you want to **** her go and try to **** her.

you dont want to **** her than go and not try to **** her.

click here:


http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
seems to have the answers all the time vs. bumping your own thread every hour.
 
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