"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got the girl. Should I call?

needsomehelp

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Alright, I was out clubbing the other night and got hooked up. Made out the whole night. Even could've fingered if I wanted to, but didn't do it.

I even got her number after she left and said something like "Maybe we can meet again".

While I certainly can't say I have any feelings for this girl (prolly never will/can), I do wanna get laid. I dont want to trick her into believing I'm looking for a relationship (frankly I dont think she's looking for one either).

Should I call?

2 days have passed since the night I met her (in other words, I met her on saturday and didnt call her yesterday).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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escobar04

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call her and ask her if she wants to kick it

if she does then you're good

if she says no, then move on and back to the club
 

belividere

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dude do what you want to do.

you want to **** her go and try to **** her.

you dont want to **** her than go and not try to **** her.

click here:


http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
seems to have the answers all the time vs. bumping your own thread every hour.
 
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