"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got the girl. Should I call?

needsomehelp

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Alright, I was out clubbing the other night and got hooked up. Made out the whole night. Even could've fingered if I wanted to, but didn't do it.

I even got her number after she left and said something like "Maybe we can meet again".

While I certainly can't say I have any feelings for this girl (prolly never will/can), I do wanna get laid. I dont want to trick her into believing I'm looking for a relationship (frankly I dont think she's looking for one either).

Should I call?

2 days have passed since the night I met her (in other words, I met her on saturday and didnt call her yesterday).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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escobar04

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call her and ask her if she wants to kick it

if she does then you're good

if she says no, then move on and back to the club
 

belividere

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dude do what you want to do.

you want to **** her go and try to **** her.

you dont want to **** her than go and not try to **** her.

click here:


http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
seems to have the answers all the time vs. bumping your own thread every hour.
 
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