"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got talking to a girl.....

Designer Man

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OLD. Been chatting since yesterday and spoke for the majority of today. Not just brief texts but full page ones back and forth. Now, I want to meet asap but she's just came out of hospital and can't meet for possibly 2 weeks. How do I sustain her interest for that long? I don't want to talk too much as it takes away the mystery and there'll be nothing to discuss when we meet. If I flake a bit, she might back off. It's just hard to sustain until we meet. Ideally we need to have met this weekend but it's out of our hands. How to proceed with this? We get on quite well and there is something there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RangerMIke

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You don't... Just tell her to let you know when she's available then forget about her. If she reaches out, make a date and see what happens. Make dates with other girls until she reaches out, you make a date, and she keeps it... then you like her... she should be nothing to you. Don't over think sh!t. It's online dating, so you are likely just one of a dozen dudes that are hitting her up... you should assume you really don't mean that much to her.
 

sazc

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You don't... Just tell her to let you know when she's available then forget about her. If she reaches out, make a date and see what happens. Make dates with other girls until she reaches out, you make a date, and she keeps it... then you like her... she should be nothing to you. Don't over think sh!t. It's online dating, so you are likely just one of a dozen dudes that are hitting her up... you should assume you really don't mean that much to her.
^^this
 

wifehunter

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Go out, talk to girls. Sheeesh, you can't even be certain, she's a girl!

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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