"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I need some help figuring this out.

I met this asian girl through myspace, the first date went well with some drinks and kiss closed on that. Then a week or two later I call her up Thursday to set a movie date for tonight. I wait outside in the cold for her to show up, and she doesn't. I call up to ask where she is cause the movie is already starting, and she tells me she thought the date was for tomorrow night (saturday). She tells me she's across the bay with a few friends. We argue for a bit about which day it was, then I just tell her goodnight.

Is she playing games or just stupid?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1-2 weeks is too long. She forgot about your ass and any emotional butterflies you may have made her feel. Or you can't kiss.

the only way she can make this up to you is if she takes YOU out. And pays for everything. AND buys you icecream.
 
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Vanilla said:
Is she playing games or just stupid?
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To answer your question none of the above. She has a low interest level in you. If she had a high interest level in you she wouldn't have flaked on you. Cut your losses and find a girl that has a high interest level in you.
 
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Don't know, if she really didn't want to be with you why did she answer the phone? Maybe she did just mix up her days.
 
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2nd_Chance said:
Don't know, if she really didn't want to be with you why did she answer the phone? Maybe she did just mix up her days.
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That's what I don't understand. She called me yesterday to ask which movie theater, and I texted her the address. Plus her english isn't very good.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the only way she can make this up to you is if she takes YOU out. And pays for everything. AND buys you ice cream.
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Damn!!! I think iqqi is the female version of me!!! For some reason I think ice cream s the bonding force between the male and female also!! Iqqi, will you marry me?
 
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She's calling my cell nonstop for the past few days. I don't think her interest level is low. All she wants to do is talk but she's pretty boring. I tell her that we'll talk when we meet on Friday. If she bails again, then I'm blocking her calls.
 
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