"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got stood up, not sure what is going on with her

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I need some help figuring this out.

I met this asian girl through myspace, the first date went well with some drinks and kiss closed on that. Then a week or two later I call her up Thursday to set a movie date for tonight. I wait outside in the cold for her to show up, and she doesn't. I call up to ask where she is cause the movie is already starting, and she tells me she thought the date was for tomorrow night (saturday). She tells me she's across the bay with a few friends. We argue for a bit about which day it was, then I just tell her goodnight.

Is she playing games or just stupid?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1-2 weeks is too long. She forgot about your ass and any emotional butterflies you may have made her feel. Or you can't kiss.

the only way she can make this up to you is if she takes YOU out. And pays for everything. AND buys you icecream.
 
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Vanilla said:
Is she playing games or just stupid?
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To answer your question none of the above. She has a low interest level in you. If she had a high interest level in you she wouldn't have flaked on you. Cut your losses and find a girl that has a high interest level in you.
 
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Don't know, if she really didn't want to be with you why did she answer the phone? Maybe she did just mix up her days.
 
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2nd_Chance said:
Don't know, if she really didn't want to be with you why did she answer the phone? Maybe she did just mix up her days.
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That's what I don't understand. She called me yesterday to ask which movie theater, and I texted her the address. Plus her english isn't very good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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iqqi said:
the only way she can make this up to you is if she takes YOU out. And pays for everything. AND buys you ice cream.
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Damn!!! I think iqqi is the female version of me!!! For some reason I think ice cream s the bonding force between the male and female also!! Iqqi, will you marry me?
 
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She's calling my cell nonstop for the past few days. I don't think her interest level is low. All she wants to do is talk but she's pretty boring. I tell her that we'll talk when we meet on Friday. If she bails again, then I'm blocking her calls.
 
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