"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Got stood up, not sure what is going on with her

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I need some help figuring this out.

I met this asian girl through myspace, the first date went well with some drinks and kiss closed on that. Then a week or two later I call her up Thursday to set a movie date for tonight. I wait outside in the cold for her to show up, and she doesn't. I call up to ask where she is cause the movie is already starting, and she tells me she thought the date was for tomorrow night (saturday). She tells me she's across the bay with a few friends. We argue for a bit about which day it was, then I just tell her goodnight.

Is she playing games or just stupid?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1-2 weeks is too long. She forgot about your ass and any emotional butterflies you may have made her feel. Or you can't kiss.

the only way she can make this up to you is if she takes YOU out. And pays for everything. AND buys you icecream.
 
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Vanilla said:
Is she playing games or just stupid?
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To answer your question none of the above. She has a low interest level in you. If she had a high interest level in you she wouldn't have flaked on you. Cut your losses and find a girl that has a high interest level in you.
 
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Don't know, if she really didn't want to be with you why did she answer the phone? Maybe she did just mix up her days.
 
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2nd_Chance said:
Don't know, if she really didn't want to be with you why did she answer the phone? Maybe she did just mix up her days.
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That's what I don't understand. She called me yesterday to ask which movie theater, and I texted her the address. Plus her english isn't very good.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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the only way she can make this up to you is if she takes YOU out. And pays for everything. AND buys you ice cream.
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Damn!!! I think iqqi is the female version of me!!! For some reason I think ice cream s the bonding force between the male and female also!! Iqqi, will you marry me?
 
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She's calling my cell nonstop for the past few days. I don't think her interest level is low. All she wants to do is talk but she's pretty boring. I tell her that we'll talk when we meet on Friday. If she bails again, then I'm blocking her calls.
 
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