“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Got Number from a 23 yo counter girl.....

dustmuffin

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I have been flirting wwith this girl for a while. Finally asked for the number.She gave me hers and I gave her mine, We are going to eat lunch at the highway patrol cafeteria. I think this will end well.Very proud of my self.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nice job on the number, but why would you c0ck block yourself by setting up a date where there is little to no chance of escalating with her?

Counter productive, IMO.
 

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I agree with @marmel75 except if you want to build up some more trust from her to you. Still it's tricky but everything depends on what you want to do with the chick.
 

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I asked her out for new years....haven't heard back will do the lunch thing too. My brain is in a fog .
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nice job on the number, but why would you c0ck block yourself by setting up a date where there is little to no chance of escalating with her?

Counter productive, IMO.
 

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I asked her out for new years....haven't heard back will do the lunch thing too. My brain is in a fog .
So you are trying to go out twice within a few days of each other? No bueno...makes you look optionless, especially since you just met this chick.

And New Years would not be the time to try and get a girl out for the first time...that's just begging for a flake.
 

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Well if it works out it will. Live and learn.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why? honest question, is it a special coupley thing or something?
It reeks of desperation to have somebody to bring in the new year with. If she asks, then you say, "Why? Would you like to join me?" This tells her that you have a life, you have plans, and she hasn't earned any priority in your life yet. Other than that, each of you should stick to your individual plans. You should at least put your d1ck inside her before you invite her for any kind of holiday celebrations.
 

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It reeks of desperation to have somebody to bring in the new year with. If she asks, then you say, "Why? Would you like to join me?" This tells her that you have a life, you have plans, and she hasn't earned any priority in your life yet. Other than that, each of you should stick to your individual plans. You should at least put your d1ck inside her before you invite her for any kind of holiday celebrations.
Yeah, I understand. I ask because here in Spain it's more of a family thing, so I wanted to understand what it was like over there.
 
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