Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Got myself in a conundrum. Need advice for sisters.

AllDay85

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A few days ago I asked out this chick at work. She said she would think about it but she was very interested. About five days later, a new chick started at work. I was flirting with her all night, had her eating out of the palm of my hand. About ten minutes before I planned on getting her number, in walks the last chick I asked out. She goes "I hope you're taking good care of my baby sister! BTW are we on for Saturday? I'd love to go out." What luck. The younger sister is a hb8, I would much rather date her. The question is, if I blow off the older sister, do I have a chance with the younger, even though she knows I asked her sister out? Or is it hopeless, date the older sister and cut my losses. Advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Evzone

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So I didn't read this before your PM. A few points:

1. I really, really, really don't advocate gaming girls at your place of work. How old are you? The one exception is if this is some BS high school job. If it's your career, then hell no man, money over *****es.

2. "She said she would think about it but she was very interested." I have never had "think about it" turn out well, ever.

3. Numbers to themselves don't mean anything. Did you do anything physical with the younger sister? If not, you're fine. If the older sister asks just say you were being friendly and move on.

As RSD Jeffy says, get more girls.
 

AllDay85

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Good points. The job is a dumbass gas station job. I just sit in the kitchen as a cook and stare at these chicks asses, they always wear yoga pants. I'm 28 and a 4th year computer science student.

I agree the comment was concerning, but last night at work she came up to me at the end of shift and asked me "if I still wanted to do something this weekend." Her hands were fidgeting and her voice stammered. She was nervous.

I haven't done anything physical yet with either one. Tried a little kino with both that's about it.

More girls I shall find.
 

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AllDay85 said:
The question is, if I blow off the older sister, do I have a chance with the younger, even though she knows I asked her sister out?
No chance.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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