"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Got myself in a conundrum. Need advice for sisters.

AllDay85

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A few days ago I asked out this chick at work. She said she would think about it but she was very interested. About five days later, a new chick started at work. I was flirting with her all night, had her eating out of the palm of my hand. About ten minutes before I planned on getting her number, in walks the last chick I asked out. She goes "I hope you're taking good care of my baby sister! BTW are we on for Saturday? I'd love to go out." What luck. The younger sister is a hb8, I would much rather date her. The question is, if I blow off the older sister, do I have a chance with the younger, even though she knows I asked her sister out? Or is it hopeless, date the older sister and cut my losses. Advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Evzone

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So I didn't read this before your PM. A few points:

1. I really, really, really don't advocate gaming girls at your place of work. How old are you? The one exception is if this is some BS high school job. If it's your career, then hell no man, money over *****es.

2. "She said she would think about it but she was very interested." I have never had "think about it" turn out well, ever.

3. Numbers to themselves don't mean anything. Did you do anything physical with the younger sister? If not, you're fine. If the older sister asks just say you were being friendly and move on.

As RSD Jeffy says, get more girls.
 

AllDay85

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Good points. The job is a dumbass gas station job. I just sit in the kitchen as a cook and stare at these chicks asses, they always wear yoga pants. I'm 28 and a 4th year computer science student.

I agree the comment was concerning, but last night at work she came up to me at the end of shift and asked me "if I still wanted to do something this weekend." Her hands were fidgeting and her voice stammered. She was nervous.

I haven't done anything physical yet with either one. Tried a little kino with both that's about it.

More girls I shall find.
 

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AllDay85 said:
The question is, if I blow off the older sister, do I have a chance with the younger, even though she knows I asked her sister out?
No chance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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