So I got my first number last night... I'm thinking that I am going to text her and possibly set up a day 2. Is the next evening too soon? I was thinking of waiting longer but there is only 2 weeks left in my semester so I kind wanted to move things along. I was thinking of opening with something along the lines of "Hey I'm looking for the cute girl who gave me her phone number the other night. Have you seen her?" Is that too cute? Should I go for more of a neg approach?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Got my first number
- Thread starter BigMak87
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I guess congrats but remember that getting the number doesn't mean much. I get lots of girls' numbers. You know how many of them I go on dates with? Maybe 1 out of every 10. There's way too many attention *****s around these days.
Yeah, I am by no means bragging at all... and am just kinda wondering about some tips I should try to take from here... of course I will be out next weekend trying to get more #s, and I'm not going to lie even getting one number makes your confidence soar at least for the rest of the night!
Maybe I'm just getting jaded in my old age but I'm really starting to get tired of women and their behavior. I don't get much of a confidence boost from getting a number because I know the chances of anything coming out of it.
well done on getting her number
usually 2 or 3 days is a good amount of time to wait before contacting her
forget the negs and all that bullshyt
just be normal and have a normal conversation with her and ask her out on a date
usually 2 or 3 days is a good amount of time to wait before contacting her
forget the negs and all that bullshyt
just be normal and have a normal conversation with her and ask her out on a date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.