So I got my first number last night... I'm thinking that I am going to text her and possibly set up a day 2. Is the next evening too soon? I was thinking of waiting longer but there is only 2 weeks left in my semester so I kind wanted to move things along. I was thinking of opening with something along the lines of "Hey I'm looking for the cute girl who gave me her phone number the other night. Have you seen her?" Is that too cute? Should I go for more of a neg approach?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Got my first number
- Thread starter BigMak87
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I guess congrats but remember that getting the number doesn't mean much. I get lots of girls' numbers. You know how many of them I go on dates with? Maybe 1 out of every 10. There's way too many attention *****s around these days.
Yeah, I am by no means bragging at all... and am just kinda wondering about some tips I should try to take from here... of course I will be out next weekend trying to get more #s, and I'm not going to lie even getting one number makes your confidence soar at least for the rest of the night!
Maybe I'm just getting jaded in my old age but I'm really starting to get tired of women and their behavior. I don't get much of a confidence boost from getting a number because I know the chances of anything coming out of it.
well done on getting her number
usually 2 or 3 days is a good amount of time to wait before contacting her
forget the negs and all that bullshyt
just be normal and have a normal conversation with her and ask her out on a date
usually 2 or 3 days is a good amount of time to wait before contacting her
forget the negs and all that bullshyt
just be normal and have a normal conversation with her and ask her out on a date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.