"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Got her number :-) what nxt

Minty25

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Hey everyone i met this girl i havent seen around for quite some time today, she was working in a department store & we really hit it off talking about old times & catching up with wots been going on in eachothers lives.

The problem is i have a girlfriend & made it clear to her but she still persisted on giving me her mobile number & going out for a drink some time.

It would be good to catch up i never give her my number how wiil i reply & do i?

Many thanks
New inexperienced don juan member.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Paintballguy

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Just because you have a drink with a girl doesnt mean you have to go out with her. And in my book, that is not cheating.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Here's the definitive rule of thumb on determining if you should do a particular thing when you are involved with someone; ask yourself if you are willing to tell your partner. If not, don't do it.
 

Minty25

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Thankyou Francisco d'Anconia

Yes u have made me think i really apreciate the advice.

I see where you are coming from i cannot possibly expect to maintain a good relationship with the girl i am serious with if i am not putting 100 percent effort into our relationship.

commitment is my main objective & after that who knows....
 
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